smg15 Posted December 7, 2014 Posted December 7, 2014 (edited) After I sent her a message she responded back with "Is your name....?" I said yeah and then she said we met before on a different site. Now my question is do you think she wants to try it again? I mean wouldn't have been easier for her to ignore me if she was not interested? And to be honest I don't even remember meeting her but she is attractive. So what do you think? Should I do what I normally do when meeting someone online and send more messages and get her number? It looks like that what she may want otherwise she would not be exchanging messages with me on the site what do you think? Edited December 7, 2014 by smg15
D.Mc. Posted December 7, 2014 Posted December 7, 2014 Hi SMG15, So you don't remember the meeting but she remembers you by name from it? I don't know, could be she liked you & you didn't like her or vice versa b/c you must not have met up or kept in contact IRL or OLD afterwards. As a woman, I'd be thinking "we had a meet last week/month/year & nothing came of it & now he's messaging me again...I must be on his B-list so forget him!" The flip side is she really did like you b/c she could put a name to the picture (or else the site your using lets you save all your messages). Point is you didn't follow-up w/her so what's changed that you would want to pursue her now?
Danda Posted December 7, 2014 Posted December 7, 2014 Eh, you might want to wait and see if she goes out of her way to contact you again. She might have just been finding out if you actually remembered her, which you didn't, even though she remembers you, and that's a bit awkward. I mean. What if you liked a woman, flirted with her, talked with her, etc and nothing came of it. Then you run into her months later, and she doesn't even remember having ever talked to you before or that you ever existed. How would that make you feel? "It looks like that what she may want otherwise she would not be exchanging messages with me on the site" That is a possibility but it's a very optimistic one. It's a lot more likely that when you messaged her, she was like does he seriously not even remember that he met me before? And was so just "...." that she actually messaged you to find out. Because it could easily give the impression that you absent-mindedly chat up a ton of different women but aren't actually interested, and so you don't even remember them when you meet them again. And of course that's just a more judgemental sort of perspective, one coming from imagining what being in her shoes might be like. An objective look at it is that maybe the conversation(s) you had with her in the past were brief and not all that interesting, so why would you remember it, specifically? No big deal. But she might feel offended by it, since she probably didn't see it that way (given that she does remember you.) So anyway, I wouldn't get your hopes up too high. I mean how are you even going to respond? "Oh, well I don't remember you at all. What did we talk about?" >_>
Author smg15 Posted December 7, 2014 Author Posted December 7, 2014 What I know for sure is we didn't meet in 2014. I met 5 girls in 2014 and she was not one of them.
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