daisygirl19 Posted December 23, 2014 Posted December 23, 2014 Until he moved out and filed for divorce, 2-3 times a week for lunch (no sex involved), 2-3 times a week at night (some sex involved), but saw him almost daily due to school board commitments and both being on the BOD for the youth athletic organization we run. Now, we see each other about the same amount, due to our custody schedules with our kids.
Ladydrib Posted December 25, 2014 Posted December 25, 2014 We met up every day at lunch for two hours and after work for three hours for two years. About 2 times a month we would take a whole day off and spend it together. We had sex about 2-3 times a week the whole time. After d day I did my best to break it off consistently but sometimes I'd see him again but the PA was over, by my doing. He says he's leaving now. I guess he's had enough. Who knows. I'm in a totally different place now. Feelings are still there but I'm healthier and that keeps me doing what I know is right.
Lady2163 Posted December 26, 2014 Posted December 26, 2014 I was also long distance with my married friend. We saw each other 8-10 times a year, when I could schedule my work in his location. When I was in his location, I was always at a hotel. He was the boss of his work environment and had different locations for his work. He was able to get away for 1-4 hours a day easily. Sometimes his work took him to another city and I'd meet him there. He did have friends and family there, but we did spend nights together and often all day as well. We knew in advance when i would be at his location. Often he would say he needed to go buy a widget or go to a remote store, something wife wasn't interested in. Meanwhile, he'd bought the item before and she never thought to look at receipt. He'd be gone for however long and then come home with the widget.
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