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[plguzmann]

Theres this young lady we been friends for couple months for about a month we have been saying we like each other.But the last time we hung out was around friends we hugged i grabbed her bootay haha but no kiss just yet...She tells me to pursue her and that she is just scared because right before we started talking her ex cheated on her yet she still tells me shes misses me.

 

She does text me soon as i text her tells me to pursue her when I ask should I But I'm just confused I'm trying to set up a date.... just me and her tonight and I didn't get a text back so i said call me when u wake up tonight no call maybe she doesn't want to talk cause she has been feeling crappy or maybe shes hanging with another guy?I'm kind of driving myself crazy I guess I'll find out how she really feels if i get her alone on a date but I just don't know....i'M SURE ALOT OF YOU GUYS ARE GONNA SAY WALK AWAY and I will If i just get one date one on one to find out the truth.....But I would love any advice from you guys

[evanescentworld]

First word of advice? Punctuate.

 

Second word?

Date casually, but keep one foot out of the door.

 

Message ends.

[angel.eyes]

First, if a guy grabbed my butt before we had even gone on a date, the chances of me going out one-on-one on a date with him would be nil.

 

Second, she's throwing out excuses before you're even dating. Her boyfriend cheated on her, so the attention and validation you're providing confirm that she's attractive to men. That's why she encourages you to pursue her. But she's also conveyed that it will be an uphill battle for you to date her...i.e. she's not really interested.