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Ok, its a little complicated.

My gf of 4 years left me 5 months ago because she thought i have feelings for another woman.

I was broken and i still miss her and thinking alot about her, but somehow i think she was right. Ive fallen in love with one of my best friends.

My age is 21 and shes 20, we both serve on the israeli defense forces.

I know her for an year and a half, i thought shes amazing for the very first moment i met her, i love when she smiles, i love her laugh, hair, smell and i love being with her, shes the only one who makes me feel good to be with since my ex dumped me.

Everytime im in the base (10-3 afternoon we both do some administration jobs) im with her, i go to eat with her, making her laugh, ill do anything to make her feel good..

I mostly dont really have problem to tell girls how i feel cus i do look good and funny and never heard no.

But she make me so confused , i know im not really her taste, shes looking for aome one older than me, another kind of look, and those stuff, but she really likes me, she like being with me, laughing from me and i always there for her.

But she always says things like "your like my brother" and " your a good friend !" guess ive been friendzoned.

I really wanna tell her, shes finishing army in 7.1.15 and im at 11.2.15

Now i still see her everyday im my base.

 

Few questions

 

1.should i even tell her?

2.should i tell her now? Or when she will finish army and i wont see her everyday after ill tell her?

3.can i check if is there a chance ?

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Ok, its a little complicated.

My gf of 4 years left me 5 months ago because she thought i have feelings for another woman.

I was broken and i still miss her and thinking alot about her, but somehow i think she was right. Ive fallen in love with one of my best friends.

My age is 21 and shes 20, we both serve on the israeli defense forces.

I know her for an year and a half, i thought shes amazing for the very first moment i met her, i love when she smiles, i love her laugh, hair, smell and i love being with her, shes the only one who makes me feel good to be with since my ex dumped me.

Everytime im in the base (10-3 afternoon we both do some administration jobs) im with her, i go to eat with her, making her laugh, ill do anything to make her feel good..

I mostly dont really have problem to tell girls how i feel cus i do look good and funny and never heard no.

But she make me so confused , i know im not really her taste, shes looking for aome one older than me, another kind of look, and those stuff, but she really likes me, she like being with me, laughing from me and i always there for her.

But she always says things like "your like my brother" and " your a good friend !" guess ive been friendzoned.

I really wanna tell her, shes finishing army in 7.1.15 and im at 11.2.15

Now i still see her everyday im my base.

 

Few questions

 

1.should i even tell her?

2.should i tell her now? Or when she will finish army and i wont see her everyday after ill tell her?

3.can i check if is there a chance ?

 

Someone ?

Im really confused ?

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