fred123 Posted December 6, 2014 Posted December 6, 2014 what does it mean when a girl you have been chatting to over text every day nearly then slows down her communication the last few days. you then ask what is going on and she says " the reason why i havent written you much the last few days is that i wanted to see if my feelings for you are real and they are. thats the truth. i want us also to work and visit you often wuthout the games. what do you want?" what should have i replied back to avoid being friendzoned and what does her message mean? friends? interested? potential boyfruend/girlfriend?
Molly Hooper Posted December 6, 2014 Posted December 6, 2014 I have no idea what that first part means. She talked to you less because she likes you? Eh? She's mentioning games, but it kinda sounds like she is playing some. I am guessing she wants to hear that you like her too. She's probably wanting some sort of solid confirmation of your interest in her.
Author fred123 Posted December 6, 2014 Author Posted December 6, 2014 she wanted to see if her feelings for me were real thats why she didnt talk so much the last few days. as a guy am i right to think this is more than friends? friends dont write like this?
Molly Hooper Posted December 6, 2014 Posted December 6, 2014 she wanted to see if her feelings for me were real thats why she didnt talk so much the last few days. No I read what she wrote just fine. Still doesn't make sense. How does not texting help someone to make sure their feelings are real? But whatever. Anyway - she said she has feelings for you. I don't understand your confusion. No, she isn't saying she wants to be friends. She is saying more.
Author fred123 Posted December 6, 2014 Author Posted December 6, 2014 see when she was not replying those few days and ignoring me she kept saying she was busy that was all with work. she was snapping saying she was busy. i used to ask her if everything was ok cos things felt different the last few days between us and she used to say yes just busy. then she said the bit about seeing if her feelings were real. so she lied that the real reason was she was busy. i was right i knew there was something more.
Author fred123 Posted December 6, 2014 Author Posted December 6, 2014 No I read what she wrote just fine. Still doesn't make sense. How does not texting help someone to make sure their feelings are real? But whatever. Anyway - she said she has feelings for you. I don't understand your confusion. No, she isn't saying she wants to be friends. She is saying more. question is then why was she shocked when i made a move on her when we met? why she act like we were only ever fruends?
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