Thegreatestthing Posted December 6, 2014 Posted December 6, 2014 I was talking to my bf tonight who went out like with his friends and he said all girls are ugly to him now etc I said it's fine if you see cute girls,I don't even care if you sleep with them,he was all I never would,no attraction etc. But I honestly could not care less if he did,for some reason it just does not bother me at all. It was the same with my ex he didn't want to ,but if he slept with ten girls I would not have cared.actually it was the same with all my exes. My friend that I like a bit if he was banging ten girls I wouldn't care in the the slightest. Does this mean that I am simply not in love with these people,or that I should be in an open relationship or something.
Danda Posted December 6, 2014 Posted December 6, 2014 Perhaps the deeper question is how you define love in the first place. I've always find it interesting that most people acknowledge the existence of love, yet you can ask 20 different people to define it, specifically, and get 20 different answers. Therefore I am of the belief that human language is incapable of communicating all things, that there are some things for which we don't have words. And perhaps some things for which we don't need words. I would advise focusing on how you feel, your sense of self, your values and your effects on others. If all feels right and you are not harming anyone, I think the best word I have is that it is good.
jeffmeyers Posted December 6, 2014 Posted December 6, 2014 So... Why do you even have boyfriends? Walking penis when you need it? Convenient radiator at night? They go well with the furniture? 1
Molly Hooper Posted December 6, 2014 Posted December 6, 2014 Does this mean that I am simply not in love . Probably, yes. It's okay to be realistic: your boy will find other women attractive. But I don't know about the whole sleeping with 10 other women thing.
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