atsiValuhC Posted December 6, 2014 Posted December 6, 2014 Hey, so I'm a successful 30 year-old guy, who recently had a series of dates with a absolutely gorgeous Columbian-American girl. We met online, she messaged me. We first had dinner a nice restaurant, had a great time, about 3 hours of conversation and a peck on the cheek. Afterwards, we texted sparingly throughout the week, and we met again a week later, again for dinner. She'd been preparing to go on vacation, and we live 3 hours apart. I wanted to get a second date in with her before her trip overseas for two weeks. As I said, she is a bombshell, easy 9/10 or 10/10. The second date went better than the first. She was laughing and giggly, playing with her hair, over-the-top flirty the whole time. We ended the night with a short 5 second kiss. She left on vacation a couple days later. Right before I kissed her goodbye, she'd mentioned What'sApp or possibly e-mail communication while she was away. I texted her a goodbye / safe travels text, and then we communicated sparingly through the app while she was gone. She sent me a picture of her in the exotic locale, and we wished each other happy Thanksgiving on that day. After that, I've sent two more texts, once following up on our Thanksgiving day wishes exchange suggesting dinner the weekend she got back (she got back a Wednesday), and the other several days later wishing her a safe flight home. Yesterday a sent her a final text saying "Welcome home! How was the flight?" but have yet to receive a response. Am I bombarding this girl with texts? How did I lose her, or have I? Can a two week vacation really turn off interest that much? We both went out of our way to set up and attend the second date before she flew out. Maybe I'm acting pre-mature. Thoughts?
FitChick Posted December 7, 2014 Posted December 7, 2014 If she just got back she is busy. Wait for her to contact you. 1
newmoon Posted December 7, 2014 Posted December 7, 2014 you have done enough at this point, leave it to her for now. i go away a lot and if it is a major trip it can take a few days to readjust and get back in touch with people. a text is short, but it means you're ready to talk and sometimes you're not, so even a text isn't worth sending. i don't think it's a problem, just a delay given her vacation and time for recovery and catching-up.
Author atsiValuhC Posted December 7, 2014 Author Posted December 7, 2014 Thanks for the replies folks. I appreciate the insight. I pysch myself out sometimes.
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