doeblin Posted December 15, 2014 Posted December 15, 2014 I call BS. Perhaps this girl is a highly motivated, dedicated student with big career aspirations. For example, the girl I am seeing is a pre-med, there is no way she would jeopardize her University grades for a *possible* relationship with a guy she doesn't know very well. If she was dating a guy for a while and he was dying of cancer or something, then obviously, she would prioritize that over studying, but a first date? Nah. Of course, I don't know OP's girl, so I can't be definitive about this. I'm just providing possible reasons for her behaviour. Well this is reasonable. However, her answer was colder than a barefoot football match in Siberia. Yeah! Can't wait to prove everyone wrong You can try again. I generally advise the three-strikes rule when dealing with flakes. Good luck!
Author CalmandCarryOn Posted December 16, 2014 Author Posted December 16, 2014 Well this is reasonable. However, her answer was colder than a barefoot football match in Siberia. You can try again. I generally advise the three-strikes rule when dealing with flakes. Good luck! I don't need luck. I have confidence. 1
doeblin Posted December 16, 2014 Posted December 16, 2014 I don't need luck. I have confidence. That's good! But talk to other girls too. They might welcome your confidence more.
Author CalmandCarryOn Posted December 16, 2014 Author Posted December 16, 2014 That's good! But talk to other girls too. They might welcome your confidence more. That's nice, but I know i won't be rejected a 3rd time.
Author CalmandCarryOn Posted December 17, 2014 Author Posted December 17, 2014 That's good! But talk to other girls too. They might welcome your confidence more. She liked my Facebook status today!!!! Good sign????
doeblin Posted December 17, 2014 Posted December 17, 2014 What are you waiting for? You said you were confident in your success. Talk to her & ask her out... or fohgetaboutit & move on.
Author CalmandCarryOn Posted December 20, 2014 Author Posted December 20, 2014 What are you waiting for? You said you were confident in your success. Talk to her & ask her out... or fohgetaboutit & move on. Guys!!! She like my profile picture on Facebook!!! It was me looking out at the sea...is this a good sign???
Author CalmandCarryOn Posted December 21, 2014 Author Posted December 21, 2014 Hit up my crush asking how her Christmas break was going. Her reply: "Hey (my name)! My break is going really well so far. i have been able to catch up on sleep and see friends which has been really great! I hope you are having a great Christmas break as well!!!" I had a sensible response back about being able to finally see my family again and then she said "That's awesome!! Glad to hear that. Were you able to go to California to look at grad schools?" I had mentioned that I would be traveling to check schools out during Christmas break a few weeks ago. Again, sensible reply back about having an incredible time and still trying to process all that happened. Then she replied... "Yeah, I'm sure. That's super exciting though!! I hope the rest of your break is just as great...and hopefully restful too! " I wished her the same back and then heard nothing again. I almost feel as if being ignored would hurt less. Dang.
SomeDude16 Posted December 21, 2014 Posted December 21, 2014 You didn't give her a reason to respond back to you.
TouchedByViolet Posted December 21, 2014 Posted December 21, 2014 What??? Ask her out if you are interested....?
Author CalmandCarryOn Posted December 21, 2014 Author Posted December 21, 2014 What??? Ask her out if you are interested....? How can I if she ended the conversation....
SomeDude16 Posted December 21, 2014 Posted December 21, 2014 How can I if she ended the conversation.... "Thanks you too." Quick, respond to this..... See the problem yet?
TouchedByViolet Posted December 21, 2014 Posted December 21, 2014 How can I if she ended the conversation.... Are you trolling lol.... Just text her saying you would like to catch up with her in person when you get back from Christmas break... or something to that effect.
Author CalmandCarryOn Posted December 21, 2014 Author Posted December 21, 2014 Are you trolling lol.... Just text her saying you would like to catch up with her in person when you get back from Christmas break... or something to that effect. No not trolling. Trying to get perspective and understand
Author CalmandCarryOn Posted December 21, 2014 Author Posted December 21, 2014 "Thanks you too." Quick, respond to this..... See the problem yet? Read again. Wasn't worded like that.
SomeDude16 Posted December 21, 2014 Posted December 21, 2014 Read again. Wasn't worded like that. Does it matter? Start a conversation. You've done it once already... You must be trolling.
787Dreamliner Posted December 21, 2014 Posted December 21, 2014 I guess TS is being over sensitive here and lack of confidence. Just ask her and if she accepts, you have something to look forward to, if not move on! Rejection is part and parcel of the learning curve of dating. Do remember, if you don't try, you never know!
Author CalmandCarryOn Posted December 21, 2014 Author Posted December 21, 2014 I guess TS is being over sensitive here and lack of confidence. Just ask her and if she accepts, you have something to look forward to, if not move on! Rejection is part and parcel of the learning curve of dating. Do remember, if you don't try, you never know! I asked her on a date a few weeks ago and she said she had to study and other plans with friends. So I am confused by her responses today...
doeblin Posted December 21, 2014 Posted December 21, 2014 I asked her on a date a few weeks ago and she said she had to study and other plans with friends. So I am confused by her responses today... OP, what kind of advice are you expecting from this thread that you didn't get on other threads you made? What do you perceive as the specific nature of your problem? (Others: I suggest you read the OP's other threads, he has a somewhat peculiar view of the situation, I think.)
nofeelings22 Posted December 21, 2014 Posted December 21, 2014 I'd give it another try. Set up to see her. Don't worry about her saying no, just ask her to do something. You have nothing to lose.
MercuryMorrison1 Posted December 21, 2014 Posted December 21, 2014 How do I get over it? Step 1 - Wake up every morning Step 2 - Live your life Step 3 - Go to sleep every night Step 4 - Rinse and Repeat. 1
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