PJKino Posted December 5, 2014 Posted December 5, 2014 I'm awfully shy talking to women who I don't know its hard and draining for me.I was talking to this bartender and it's the first women I've really clicked with sense of humor wise personality wise etc and been physically attracted to.It seemed like we had the same sense of humor were into the same things.. I've never felt this before so when I found out she was living with her boyfriend it kinda demoralized me because it took so long to click with a women I was attracted to who knows how long it will take to get that feeling again.
Elias33 Posted December 5, 2014 Posted December 5, 2014 Hey man, just see it as practice. Just change the way you look at it and it can be a motivator. You had a nice chat, a good time, the results were not as intended, but you still approached and communicated with a lady. Congratulations!
GoodOnPaper Posted December 5, 2014 Posted December 5, 2014 I agree -- it feels deflating but it's actually a positive outcome. You just have to keep plugging away. In my post-college single life, every woman I managed to meet said they had a boyfriend or fiance, so I empathize entirely. While working up the nerve to talk to women in the future, just be sure to block out any nagging "she-probably-has-a-boyfriend" thoughts.
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