How to deal with women who is in need of money and like to give false hope often?

[KenrickGaw]

Hi all,

I have a female friend. She has a boyfriend and likes to give false hope. I was cheated into giving her a present and then she ignored me. Then she asked me to lend her money weeks later.How to deal with women who is in need of money and likes to give false hope often? Many thanks in advance.

[PegNosePete]

Say no and don't talk to them any more.

They are no "friend".

[Redhead14]

Hi all,

I have a female friend. She has a boyfriend and likes to give false hope. I was cheated into giving her a present and then she ignored me. Then she asked me to lend her money weeks later.How to deal with women who is in need of money and likes to give false hope often? Many thanks in advance.

 

 

You walk away. She is not your friend. Not only that, you should not be giving gifts to any woman friend (nor should she be accepting gifts from men) who has a boyfriend, regardless of whether she is giving you hope. She is a manipulator and is likely manipulating her so called boyfriend.

 

I'd like to add, the the use of "woman" to describe her, is very generous.

Edited December 5, 2014 by Redhead14

[smackie9]

Kick her to the f'in curb bro. Never ever lend money to anyone if you expect something back, like appreciation.

 

You were just another sucker in her game of manipulation.

[KenrickGaw]

Hi all,

thanks a lot.

[KenrickGaw]

That woman kept confusing me that time and after I got to know a few more women. Then I realized something was not right.Because she consistently ignored me and then text me.

[smackie9]

That woman kept confusing me that time and after I got to know a few more women. Then I realized something was not right.Because she consistently ignored me and then text me.

 

 

Well you learned a valuble lesson then. Turn it around next time....it's not what you can do for them, but what they are willing to do for you.