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How often should I contact a lady that I want to woo?


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Hi all,

How often should I contact a lady that I want to woo? I have dated her once and she agreed to meet me again.She is a shy lady.

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As often as feels right.

 

Send her a message when you have something to say/share. If she responds in an open way, pick up on it. If not, then let it fade for a bit and try again. Maybe she will send you a message now and then after you reach out too.

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Hi all,

How often should I contact a lady that I want to woo? I have dated her once and she agreed to meet me again.She is a shy lady.

 

I would call her at least a couple of times per week or send a light text now and again. Don't flood her or overwhelm her. You should schedule the next date as soon as possible in a phone call. When you get together, you keep things light and perhaps steer the conversation at some point to get a sense of what her desires are in terms of contact from suitors. You can do this casually by saying something simple like, I like it when I get texts during the day or something general like that. Then she will say something that gives you a clue about how you should proceed hopefully.

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Less is more. Try for 2-3 dates per week with some short confirmation conversations in between.

 

 

Avoid lengthy text "conversations". If you have that much to say, use your voice.

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