Redhead14 Posted December 5, 2014 Posted December 5, 2014 Well I never said the sex was great. lol I like him WAAAAYYYY more than I like the sex. That is not really a good way to go into a relationship. You would end up just having sex just to do it over time and will be a issue at some point. You would eventually feel put upon. Tread lightly with this one . . . all the best to you! It's your gut sometimes that you have to listen to.
snowflakes88 Posted December 5, 2014 Posted December 5, 2014 Thank you! I think I put undue pressure on her by asking him that so soon. Even when we had the "do you only see us a causal relationship" talk he said "I guess I do". You GUESS? He couldn't even be sure in his answer. I put him on the spot and didn't give him time to think about it. You've been dating him for three months and having sex? You absolutely didn't ask him that too soon. Like, not in any universe. 1
snowflakes88 Posted December 5, 2014 Posted December 5, 2014 And, yes, it was too soon to put pressure on the situation if at all. Three months + sleeping together is too soon to inquire as to whether your interaction is casual vs. heading somewhere?
Redhead14 Posted December 5, 2014 Posted December 5, 2014 (edited) Three months + sleeping together is too soon to inquire as to whether your interaction is casual vs. heading somewhere? Yes, since she didn't do it when she should have (which was before having sex) and now seems to feel like she wants more, she should have left it alone for a little bit longer. No harm no foul yet. And, don't forget, now it's about handling something that was handled wrong in the first place and helping her do something wrong, right I am still advocating moving on, but if she wants to move forward, she's gotta do an end run. Edited December 5, 2014 by Redhead14 1
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