AllFunAndGames Posted December 5, 2014 Posted December 5, 2014 (edited) Back story; I'm 25 ex is 24, going out for 2 years. Broke up 3 months ago. Completely my fault, relationship had its flaws but basically I was in a rut with life/ relationship! Made every mistake in the book, some quite impressive romantic gestures though, and all along despite sometimes acting nuts I haven't been mean or nasty. So where we are now. Thursday last week she texts out of the blue, hadn't spoken in 2/3 weeks. Seemed like she was drunk, thought she may be in trouble so I eventually rang. She was just at home drunk. Didn't say much that made sense, random things like "You're the only one that understands how I sleep" and "you're in my circle of trust, or are you". Next day heard nothing. So I text her Saturday asking her if she wanted to explain what happened the other night. She text saying she couldn't remember, asked what she said. I didn't text back, she tried ringing few times, didn't answer, eventually answered later that night and we just chatted. Finished by asking for my stuff back. She said she had forgot and she might see me out that night in town. Next day text asking if i wanted to call down to collect stuff. I was busy so said I might later. She said just call down for a few minutes, said she wanted to catch up too. Eventually called down maybe 4 hours later. Few strange things happened; She asked was I seeing someone I refused to answer so she said I obviously was so, I simply said thats not what I said. She said she had thought about us having sex when she asked me down, said this maybe 3 times.... Asked if i had needs and did i not miss that part of the relationship, I said I missed more than just that. Eventually asked her for a hug so we cuddled for a few minutes. Eventually finished with me dropping her to work. Her final bit was asking how I felt about everything now... as in about the break up I presumed.... asked if it made me sad... I said I was basically just sort of pretending it didn't happen.... that there was nothing I could do about it, and that I was just sad I didn't get to enjoy her company anymore and do things with her. At this stage she had to leave, kissed me on the cheek and left. Text me later saying "well that was normal, what aftershave are you wearing, i can smell it on me". Eventually led to sexting a bit. Been few more texts since. Also I deleted her off Facebook and snapchat ages ago. Added her on Facebook again but she never accepted. But she asked if we could be friends on snap chat or if i just didn't want to see what she was up to. I said I didn't really mind. But she didn't add me either way. Don't know what to make of the whole thing.... Edited December 5, 2014 by AllFunAndGames
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