Angel29 Posted December 4, 2014 Posted December 4, 2014 I am part of a walking and social group. There is a guy there who has fancied me for months but he is shy and not approached me. In the end a mutual friend introduced us and told him I was interested which he was shocked and said he has always liked me. This weekend was the first time we properly hung out on a walking holiday. We had such a laugh, he asked me lots about my life, said I should come walking more, that I should come for New Years and even said about a new bus from his home town which goes to mine. He danced with me on the dance floor and his mate said 'you do know he likes you as he never dances'. I caught him looking at me many times over the weekend and he smiled at me too. The next day he got moody as his friend invited himself to have a lift back with me. At the end he said to me 'keep in touch' yet he didn't swap numbers. I heard since he left early to go on a second date with someone he met a few weeks before me. I know we had only just met so it's understandable he had a date as he didn't know me. He seemed annoyed he had to leave early. Was he interested? A friend said drop him a message on the social group to say it was nice to see him but don't add him on Facebook and show up at more events like he said. Is that ok to do?
MsSmurf Posted December 4, 2014 Posted December 4, 2014 He might be interested or he might have just been being friendly. Perhaps he's a bit more interested in the other gal he went on a date with and wants to see where that goes, but doesn't want to completely reject you either. If he wants to get in touch with you he can since you're both part of some of the same social groups and you've demonstrated an interest in him already. If I were in your shoes I wouldn't do anything further until he makes his interest clearer. If he doesn't move things forward then he may just want to be friends and that's ok too.
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