Vices-Virtues Posted December 4, 2014 Posted December 4, 2014 In one of my posts , I talked about how my bf kissed another girl. We are still together, because he gets a second chance and that's is all. I trust him more than ever now, idk if that's because I don't care anymore or that I believe he won't do it again, but... Everyday I tend to find myself imaging him kissing her. I don't want to think about it. I would like it to be erased from my memory or at least put away deep deep in the past and just forget. Everytime I think about it, it makes me feel like I should just leave him so I wouldn't have l think about it . I feel like he isn't attracted to me, because me and the girl are totally 100% different . I feel depressed and I feel like just giving up on him, but I don't want too. Is there anything I can do to help put it all behind me into the past?
The Poster Posted December 4, 2014 Posted December 4, 2014 People make mistakes. If you can work through it together and forgive and have trust in him then you'll be fine, otherwise if you don't trust him you'll have to walk away. I've always been a supporter of second chances and trying to make it work, but for that to happen you'll need to know you can get over it and fully trust him again. Good luck.
Zahara Posted December 4, 2014 Posted December 4, 2014 I think kissing a girl is the least of your problems. If you feel that you should leave him, leave him for the fact that he physically hurts you. You're so put off by him kissing a girl but not put off and completely repulsed by him choking you and beating you? SMH.
Author Vices-Virtues Posted December 4, 2014 Author Posted December 4, 2014 I think kissing a girl is the least of your problems. If you feel that you should leave him, leave him for the fact that he physically hurts you. You're so put off by him kissing a girl but not put off and completely repulsed by him choking you and beating you? SMH. I didn't ask you to go and tell me about him beating me, did I? These are two different subjects. Now please if you have anything to say about helping me to forget that he kissed someone then please do so . Otherwise... Bye.
Zahara Posted December 4, 2014 Posted December 4, 2014 I didn't ask you to go and tell me about him beating me, did I? These are two different subjects. Now please if you have anything to say about helping me to forget that he kissed someone then please do so . Otherwise... Bye. You didn't ask, but I'm going to tell you anyway. Same subject. He's a loser. A cheater AND an abuser. Now you have two reasons. You stated you feel like leaving him because he kissed another girl, my god if you need motivation to leave, the added fact that he beats you should be the icing on the cake.
Ducktape Posted December 4, 2014 Posted December 4, 2014 I trust him more than ever now And then you proceed to write a whole paragraph on why you don't trust him anymore.
Author Vices-Virtues Posted December 4, 2014 Author Posted December 4, 2014 And then you proceed to write a whole paragraph on why you don't trust him anymore. No, I wrote a paragraph about how I. Ant get the image out of my head. I trust him that he won't make the same mistake again. I trust him . I just can't stop thinking about the past.
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