Problem with a girl

[giorgos23]

First of all i want to say Sorry for my English.

I met a girl in the gym[just to know i am mascular].The first date i met her in gym we talked only 1 minute and then she always chatting with me and following me in the gym.The same date i take her back to her place with my mororcycle.One day later,we chat more in the gym,and after she told me that she will wait for me so we will leave together.She waited and then she told me to go to eat[all that after gym session].It was realy nice.After 1 day i told her if she wants to go for a drink with me ,she declined cause she already scheduled a date with her friends and coudnt come,but she told me to go there if i want .I didnt reply,and some hours later she text me to go there,she wants to see me.I went there ,its was fun,but coudlnt make anything cause was 4-5 people .The other date she text me again if i am ok and flirting messages.

And lets go in the new week.Day 1 in the gym and she was like nothing happend.Just a hi.I called her the day after and asked her if she want to go to movies with me ,she told me Yes .After some hours she text me how I am[i respond ok,and then told her that i will see her in the movies ].3 hours later she canceled the date.I didnt reply[i was realy angry]and 2 days later,she came to the gym ,she told me sorry about that date she canceled me,and recheduled for the next week.After 1 hour ,she came to me to say bb and asked me what i will do later.I respond that i dont realy know,and she left.I text her then that i wont do something and if she want we can go out.She told me that she cant cause she had fever and wont go anywhere].Some hours Later my friend that work on the gym told me that she saw her drinking with her friends[female friends]and she told him To not say anything to me .I didnt text her anything ofc cause i was angry again,and in monday when she came,she said hi to me and 5 minutes later went to my friend and asked him if he told me anything[if he told me that she was drinking with her friends].1 hour later she said bye to me like nothing happened.Today was the date she rescheduled[1 week ago she canceled me and recheduled for today]but still she didnt called me ,not text nothing.

Whats going on,is is playing with me?,Should i ask her for another date?I realy like her and i dont know what to do.AGAIN SORRY FOR MY BAD ENGLISH,I AM TRYING

[umirano]

Yes she's playing with you and you need to get her out of your head lest you want this type of games to continue. She has her head in her a55 on how to treat people who take a friendly interest in her.

 

Do you have the time and the nerve to teach her manners? I wouldn't.

[giorgos23]

So,dont ask for a new date[to check for sure?]?

[giorgos23]

any other advice?

[umirano]

No don't ask her out. She has no respect for you and tries to get your friends to help her treat you like an idiot.

 

Why'd you want to do anything with her?

[tombadtom]

if you like her and her brain is in her ass then it is good you take more initiative to reach her. her 'emotion switch' is not turn on yet. does she enjoy the time with you? you can see how she react during conversation and she touch you or give u a punch when she is laughing or when you make fun(friendly but not insulting)on her?

 

did you touch her hand? arm? shoulder? hair? any skin or body contact happened?

when you touch her(be natural, don't let her feel that you purposely touch her), she avoid or reject? if she is not, that is a green light. you can upgrade the touch in different level, arms, shoulder then hair, apply some sweet praise too.

 

you have to turn on the emotion switch of her every time. she felt happy when with you yesterday doesn't mean that today also like that. this is the uniqueness of women.

 

do something to her and observe, you will find some hints from her reaction. women's emotion is a fun thing, comes fast and gone fast too.

 

one more, don't always say yes on what she telling you or tell you to do or ask you for help. sometimes, a step backward is actually a tactic to win. last, don't take so serious about all her reaction and response. if you found out she doesn't like you, just let her go and go to next one. huge forest out there, man!

[giorgos23]

When we wre alone always come and kiss me on chick. I touch her and she got no problems with that. Always doing funny staff on gym or observe me from distance. She also share her drinks with me. But now is about a week and I saw her 1 time only and we don't even talked. I will try one more time.

[giorgos23]

Hello again .Today she came to the gym,and i didnt say a single hello to her[to tell the truth ,i didnt see her].She came and asked me if i have a problem with her and why i didnt talk to her.I told her that i got no problem,i just didnt see you and after a while I told her if she wants to go out with me[tommorow].She told me ofc ,and told her that i will call.After a while ,I told her that i want to speak to her when she is done with the workout.She came to me ,told me she is leaving,i told her i got 1 more set and we will leave together.SHE LEFT.She left and 1 minute later she send me a message that she wasnt in good mood and she will call me later when she go home:eek:.1 hour later she called me,Ofc i told her wtf is wrong with her,and why she didnt wait].She told me that she got problems with her family ktc[ofc she play games],and told me to that she wants to know what i had to say.She wanted to meet me to explain her.I went there and expained everything[told her that i find her intersting and i would like to learn more about her,thats why i wanted to date her].I explained her that i didnt want more games,and be more direct with me ,she agreed with me and apologized.Tommorow we got a date,if she cancel it ,its a HUGE X for me,no more games.

[giorgos23]

So she came,i told her how i feel,and she told me the same[she like me ktc].When i told her that, it was like i gave her the green light.WHen we stand up[we were for a coffee],we grabbbed and kissed,we were out for 5 hours and we non stop kissing,realy nice day for me.The other date she was texting me ,calling me,same thing on monday ,but she always say she is realy busy[when she is the one who calls me],and now passed 3 days and still i didnt see her.

She like it when we go out,she is texting me non stop and calling me,why she doenst let me see her,just a bit?Still playing?

[giorgos23]

So any advice after that?Obviously she like me,but i cant undreastand after that day .

[giorgos23]

So you were right. After we hooked up she still calling me , texting ktc( how was her date ktc)an always when I told her to go out she cancel for retarder reasons( coffee with friends, her dad ktc). So I couldn't handle this anymore and when I saw her in gym told her what's really wants from me and how you don't have an hour for someone you like ( she told me that she like me a lot). I left and 1 hour later she send a message that she needs space and time and better not continue , lol.

Tell me something guys, the problem was me, or she was just a girl that wanted games? Why to make out with someone who doesn't like? I am so angry. Please if someone can reply will be nice and I will feel better

[most_distant_galaxy]

Maybe she felt flattered by your attention and persistence. She was obviously playing with you!

[giorgos23]

Yeah I know. But talking to her about that( no time for me ktc), was bad? I just want to know if I did a mistake and shouldn't tell her that in her face ,cause I feel bad that I did a mistake. So , talking to her about my feelings and why she doesn't have time for me was bad? Did I pressured her( cause that's what she told me) . Do you think after that she will come back and flirt me again?

[giorgos23]

Maybe she felt flattered by your attention and persistence. She was obviously playing with you!

So after all that[i text her that i also dont have time and i am not used to this immature behaviors ],should i talk to her to the gym?Say just hi ,or nothing?

[giorgos23]

after all that[we kissed ,then she told me she doesnt want something] she came to gym and asked me why i am not talking to her and after a while she sit near me just to force me speak to her.What should i do.I KNOW SHE PLAY WITH ME AND SHE DOESNT STOP IT,i just need from her to stop playing with me.Any advice?

[giorgos23]

Sorry for wirte again,but you think that a girl at the age of 19 can play games like this?Kissing someone just for game?Cause she text me after 2 weeks of talking to her,weird staff