JasonLeeRich Posted December 3, 2014 Posted December 3, 2014 Long crap short, My ex of 4 years moved to Colorado for school. Couldn't have been worse timing. My dad and grandpa had died 7 months prior and boy was my mind a sloppy joe. She dropped info about the move on me about 1 month after all this, I was hesitant but agreed. Then a week before we left I kinda had cold feet, said I couldnt go and it was to much right now. I changed my mind about 2 days later and off we went. I loved her so I did it. Well fast forward I live there 3 months, school starts, I feel I have to go back home to Texas temporarily. "If you leave its over." Thought Id be a man and stand to my decision and she was just being unreasonable ( i was coming back). Well find out the day after I left she had a dude (she meet in class 3 days prior) spend the night !!!! 2 weeks go by and I say im done here and am coming back up but NOPE! She said I hurt her to bad and she is done. I think she just found something fresh, new and exciting so she just swept me under a rug. 4 years. Over. Future plans and all that hogwash. Gone. Maybe she did it out of spite? Maybe she is just to young (22) and goes for whatever best suits her needs. Selfish. Whatta ya'll think?
Chi townD Posted December 3, 2014 Posted December 3, 2014 (edited) She was immature and selfish. How did you find out that she slept with someone just 48 hours after you leaving? One day, she'll realize that her actions hurt once she puts her own pain aside. But, here's the deal, you need to let her go. You need to make positive changes in your life and get your revenge! And the best revenge YOU can get is to lead and damn good life. I've talked to you about this before in your other thread. So, what positive changes have you been making? Edited December 3, 2014 by Chi townD
Author JasonLeeRich Posted December 3, 2014 Author Posted December 3, 2014 I've been doing better for sure. Still does kinda hurt. I miss her. That is to be expected. I found out by calling our old neighbor and he said " Man I don't know if I should tell you this but the day after you left she had a guy over and he left at 7 in the morning." Knowing her they say -you leave them how you found them-. She was cheating on her ex bf with me after she told me they had broken up. So I guess I can't be to surprised. I've been doing well for myself though. I took up my last credits of college. Getting my associates thank god. But after that I'm at a loss of where to go. I still loved being in Colorado so I do want to move back. All my friends and family look down on that because they think it will be all just for her. It is not. But tbh I would love to run into her and be like " Yea bitch you thought I was just lost without you eh?" Ha. I tried to reason with her and she acts like he the freaking best thing since The Beatles. I get it though. He knows all the local spots and can whoo her like that. He doesnt have the emotional "baggage" of losing loved one nearest to you. I would exercise but DAMN its cold! And Im saving up money for the move and dont wanna do a gym membership. I wrote down all emotions and letters you never send. So next time it will be easier and faster if it happens again. So you think I should move. I made friends there and loved the new mountains and scenery. Its Fort Collins and Id be moving in a place with roomies I dont even know. But new experiences will help alot I think.
Chi townD Posted December 3, 2014 Posted December 3, 2014 Cold in Texas?!?! Dude, come to Chicago and then we'll talk. LOL! Personally, I wouldn't move to Colorado. I would go somewhere else. Or even consider staying in the Ice Box know as Texas until you get your Bachelors. If you really feel the need to move, I would consider some other options. Why not Florida? On the coast, palm tree's and sun.. If you made friends in Colorado, you can make friends anywhere. A fresh start. Congrats on getting your associates! Well done! The average difference in salary between someone that has an associates versus a high school diploma is about 14,000 a year. So, you're going in the right direction. After hearing that your Ex cheated with you on her Ex boyfriend, hell yeah, let that bitch go. She's a serial cheater and it wouldn't bode well for you in the future. Trust me, there are more women out there that will be loyal to you and would understand grieving when they see it. Trust me on this, DO NOT GO BACK TO COLORADO! If she got wind of that, she would think you're desperate for her. Show her different.
Author JasonLeeRich Posted December 3, 2014 Author Posted December 3, 2014 Cold in Texas?!?! Dude, come to Chicago and then we'll talk. LOL! Personally, I wouldn't move to Colorado. I would go somewhere else. Or even consider staying in the Ice Box know as Texas until you get your Bachelors. If you really feel the need to move, I would consider some other options. Why not Florida? On the coast, palm tree's and sun.. If you made friends in Colorado, you can make friends anywhere. A fresh start. Congrats on getting your associates! Well done! The average difference in salary between someone that has an associates versus a high school diploma is about 14,000 a year. So, you're going in the right direction. After hearing that your Ex cheated with you on her Ex boyfriend, hell yeah, let that bitch go. She's a serial cheater and it wouldn't bode well for you in the future. Trust me, there are more women out there that will be loyal to you and would understand grieving when they see it. Trust me on this, DO NOT GO BACK TO COLORADO! If she got wind of that, she would think you're desperate for her. Show her different. But Chi! I want my degree in Journalism Broadcasting and telecommunications! CSU is a great school for that. It was already my plans and I'll be damned if Ima let her just make a whole great state unavailable for me!
hudson701 Posted December 3, 2014 Posted December 3, 2014 Solipsism- look it up. All women are like it. Theres nothing unique in your situation.
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