katiemiller Posted December 3, 2014 Posted December 3, 2014 I "re-met" a guy from college about three weeks ago and we hit it off. He asked for my number and asked if I would like to go out on a date with him. I agreed, but I was the first one to text him after. He invited me over the next weekend for a bbq, we had a great time and ended up being intimate. The next morning was great though, he made me breakfast, was in no hurry to take me home, nothing was awkward, etc. The next week though, he didn't make an effort to initiate conversation. However, once I text, he keeps the conversation going by asking questions, etc. It was Thanksgiving week, so I didn't think much of it. Especially because he text Saturday when he was back in town and asked to hang out. I had already agreed to watch a college football game with my friends, so we ended up at the same bar, but I didn't want to crowd him and his friends so I hung out mostly with mine. I could tell he was getting agitated and kept asking why I wouldn't talk to him. The next morning he asked to go to the park with me and we ended up hanging out all day and going to dinner. He was very affection; trying to hold my hand and paid for dinner (no sex though). This week, I again have to initiate the conversation, but I asked him on a date tomorrow and he agreed. Should his lack of texting deter me? I am trying to play it cool and allow a day or two to pass before I text him. I would normally say he is blowing me off, but I don't know why he'd keep wanting to hang out though?
d0nnivain Posted December 3, 2014 Posted December 3, 2014 Some people don't text. When you see him ask him about his communications styles & preferences. He may not be aware that you see some of his behaviors as a lack of interest.
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