marioa51 Posted December 3, 2014 Posted December 3, 2014 ok so if you havent read my other threads, my ex dumped me a week ago because i lied. anyways long story short she ignored me i did beg a bit present day. she just sent me a text: "ill be at the front of my work tomorrow at 8:30" is this good? what if she just brings me my stuff to give back :/ i do love her still so what can i do ?
Chi townD Posted December 3, 2014 Posted December 3, 2014 Yeah, that text is a little vague. Not, entirely sure what that could mean? I mean, she's going to be in front of her work at 08:30. Okay, that sounds like it's before she has to go in. I speculate that she's supposed to start at 09:00. What kind of meaningful conversation can you have in less than 30 minutes? If it were my situation, I would respond back with, "Okay, sure. I can mean you. Can I ask what this is about?" See what she has to say. Maybe it is to get your things back. What did you lie about?
Chi townD Posted December 3, 2014 Posted December 3, 2014 Okay, I went back and read your other thread. You saw this girl at Uni and outside of Campus. I speculate that this was just a friend and no romantic feelings on your part for this other girl. I have a feeling that your (Ex) girlfriend got burned pretty bad in a past relationship and I also speculate that she was cheated on. Because she seems wound up pretty tight about having friends of the opposite sex. She states that you broke her trust. But, the way I see it, she never really had any trust in you to begin with. Never trusted you to be loyal even while you're around people of the opposite sex. She never trusted you that you COULD be loyal to her. If I'm right and she was cheated on in the past, I would just say, "Look, I'm not your ex. I don't cheat and when I'm in a committed relationship with someone I remain loyal to that person. If you want me to lose my friend to be with you, then fine. I'll do it. But, you have to understand that there are more women out there. You can banish an entire gender from the planet! Sooner or later, I'm going to have interactions with other girls, but it doesn't mean I'm going to cheat on you."
Author marioa51 Posted December 3, 2014 Author Posted December 3, 2014 hey thanks for you help, well i am her first boyfriend. her first love. so what does this mean now? could she want to work things our or is it most likely the final step for her to move on
Chi townD Posted December 3, 2014 Posted December 3, 2014 hey thanks for you help, well i am her first boyfriend. her first love. so what does this mean now? could she want to work things our or is it most likely the final step for her to move on Too vague. Could be to work things out, it could be to give you your stuff back. It could be to find "closure" which is stupid, because all that would be is blaming you for the demise of the relationship. That's why I said to find out what it's about. Because, at least you'll know what you'll be walking into. If it's to return your stuff, then you could bring hers. If it's to talk and work things out, okay. Hear her out. If it's to get "closure" and to bitch you out for 30 minutes to make you feel horrible, you can go ahead and cancel.
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