So much anger (Updated)

[Zahara]

There was no need for that. So what if he was staring? You should have told Eric, "Look there's been enough issues with this guy and I'd rather not create anymore trouble, so let's enjoy ourselves and just ignore him." Grown up thing to do. Mature thing to do. Smart thing to do.

 

You thrive on drama. So does your friend because going up to someone and getting in their face and calling them a little bitch/piece of crap was just enough to possibly cause a scene or a fight. And you, right there in the middle of it all.

Edited December 25, 2014 by Zahara

[ExpatInItaly]

There was no need for that. So what if he was staring? You should have told Eric, "Look there's been enough issues with this guy and I'd rather not create anymore trouble, so let's enjoy ourselves and just ignore him." Grown up thing to do. Mature thing to do. Smart thing to do.

 

You thrive on drama. So does your friend because going up to someone and getting in their face and calling them a little bitch/piece of crap was just enough to possibly cause a scene or a fight. And you, right there in the middle of it all.

 

Agreed. This is all getting really juvenile and silly. If you really wanted to be victorious, you should have done nothing. Eliciting a reaction from you or your friend tells this other guy you still care. I think you kind of shot yourself in the foot with this one.

[snowflakes88]

I'm sorry, but stuff like that is why I feel zero sympathy for you when you whine about all the drama in your life. You invite it, you love it, you thrive on it. Nothing to see here.

[Diezel]

Yes I'm sure you loved a little bit of drama, it's been like a week since there was some in your life.

 

Not really, maybe 3-4 days. A week would be like a century for her.

[Diezel]

Agreed. This is all getting really juvenile and silly. If you really wanted to be victorious, you should have done nothing. Eliciting a reaction from you or your friend tells this other guy you still care. I think you kind of shot yourself in the foot with this one.

 

How long til she posts about "Eric" wanting to be more than just friends and barging into her parents house and trying to kiss her?

 

Over/under, anyone?

[Ashley S]

I told him to ignore him. He had some drinks and got belligerent. Sometimes that happens with alcohol, but I told him to stop and to ignore him. I didn't look or speak to him once. I was just saying that it felt a bit victorious. Sorry I was just sharing my excitement! I wasn't trying to create drama because I immediately left the bar with Eric after his little brawl with Nate. I wasn't looking for attention or anything. It was all on Eric, but I was just sharing my excitement. Anyways, Merry Christmas everyone! Peace! xoxo

[DrReplyInRhymes]

Hey! SO I wanted to share this. It's 2:55 am here, and I am bored. Well earlier in the night I went to my cousin's house for Christmas Eve, well my friend came along. He was lonely for Christmas, so I thought I would bring him with me. We all ended up at this bar, and guess who was there? "loser"! The one who insulted me, and use to be my friend. I'll just call him Nate. He kept staring at my friend Eric, and Eric didn't even know who he was, but he even said to me "That guy keeps on staring!" I said "Oh yeah, just ignore him. He's a loser" Nate was subtly looking at me, but it wasn't obvious.

 

He didn't say anything to me either. What was kinda awesome though is my friend Eric kept getting pissed off that he was getting starred at so he went up to Nate, and said "You are nothing but a little bitch, quit ****ing staring you piece of ****" Nate just stared at him, hahahaha! He did nothing! I told Eric to stop, and calmed him down, but in the same breath I am feeling a bit victorious It was a good feeling to see Nate at a bar with a guy hanging on me (even though Eric is just a friend), but Nate doesn't know that. Also, to have Eric bitch at Nate, was priceless to me I know it's immature, but I just love though how he kept staring at Eric hahaha.

 

This is a vindictive attitude, and that attitude isn't attractive,

It's a sign of low self esteem, something you have admitted and enacted,

with your behavior toward him, one that is confusing as hell,

It seems like you think about this guy all day, far as I can tell.

 

I'm happy you've distanced yourself, but I'm worried about you too,

I don't know if you're strong enough to just cut contact and see it through,

You daydream about "revenge" and you take joy in his demise,

That's something you should look within yourself and ask the question "why?"

[Diezel]

I told him to ignore him. He had some drinks and got belligerent. Sometimes that happens with alcohol, but I told him to stop and to ignore him. I didn't look or speak to him once. I was just saying that it felt a bit victorious. Sorry I was just sharing my excitement! I wasn't trying to create drama because I immediately left the bar with Eric after his little brawl with Nate. I wasn't looking for attention or anything. It was all on Eric, but I was just sharing my excitement. Anyways, Merry Christmas everyone! Peace! xoxo

 

Sure, it was ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL on Eric.

 

Nothing is ever on you, Ashley. Ever. You did a great job of stopping whatever Eric was trying to do. Just like every other situation. It's on everyone else.

 

You are just an innocent bystander in life. That's why you enjoyed it so much. Because you tried to "stop" him.

[Zahara]

Common denominators whenever there's drama:

 

You and alcohol.