Agam Posted December 3, 2014 Posted December 3, 2014 Hello all, I am a 23 year old boy. I dumped a girl 4 months back. Now I am mentally stable and completely out of her because I made the absolutely correct decision as she is not worthy of true love, care and respect coz she is running behind money and gifts and i was searching for a partner. But no problem to me as I realised it pretty early. Now I have got a nice job, good environment in my family. All in all my life is moving smoothly on a happy track. 3 months back a girl of my age group approached me on fb. I didn't knew her. So I enquired about our acquaintance from her so she replied that we have met earlier in person, but I am not sure about it. Anyways as she has a very polite and positive approach towards this we talked further. As I am working in an investment bank I am pretty much busy in my schedule and also I joined it recently so I am dedicated towards my work. Then also in the meantime we continue to chat on fb. It was a general chat which contains a little fun, sharing of the daily work routine, sharing jokes etc. It was only a week time since our first word, unexpectedly she shared her home address one evening. It is normal but this thing states that she is trusting me in my opinion. She also enquired about my present status of relationship and praised me. Around 2 months have passed and we are good fb friends. Once when she was on a trip she shared her single photographs as well as her family photos with me in my personal inbox. This weekend we planned to have a meeting after her collage. But I found no luck. I asked for her phone numbers but she waved this in fun but later she agreed that soon she will be going to get a new one and share it with me. So basically I am slightly confused regarding the approach towards her. How do I need to move forward with her? She has good looks same social status i.e if we move further in a relationship there will not be any social barrier. I am having a good Jo in hand ao this removes the financial barrier as well. So loveshackers please suggest me on the case as now it is time for me to move in a correct channel in every sense of my life.
Author Agam Posted December 20, 2014 Author Posted December 20, 2014 We are talking a bit more now. She asked me yo go for a movie this weekend and asked for the contact ad well. This girl is moving a bit forward but I need suggestions regarding the next move of mine.......
acrosstheuniverse Posted December 20, 2014 Posted December 20, 2014 We are talking a bit more now. She asked me yo go for a movie this weekend and asked for the contact ad well. This girl is moving a bit forward but I need suggestions regarding the next move of mine....... I'm really not sure what's so difficult about your next move... you accept her invite to a movie, and go to the movie? Then you ask her out afterwards for the next date. And so forth... ... then again, I'm writing from a UK perspective, not Indian. I know in the UK we rarely have these issues around worrying about social status so I'm guessing things are very different in your culture than they are in mine. Have you tried speaking to your family about how to proceed with this girl? I imagine they'd have more useful things to say. Other than that, it sounds like she likes you.
Author Agam Posted December 23, 2014 Author Posted December 23, 2014 Thanks for replying. But the problem is not my family or like that I want to hide us from anyone, no. The basic problem is with her that in the case of movie invitation or first meeting she only make plans and suggest these things. But on the action time she get disappeared. As she asked for my contact numbers as well but neither contacted me nor she gave me her numbers. So I am actually hesitating in deciding my attitude towards her. Do I need to force her or let things happen as they are?????
Assada Posted December 23, 2014 Posted December 23, 2014 You should see other women as well. You are not married to her... She hasnt even give you her number. So see other women
Author Agam Posted December 27, 2014 Author Posted December 27, 2014 Buddy that's what I am asking for..... My attitude towards her. Do I arrogantly unfriend her or need to clearify the scene or ask her directly either to move forward or move on!!!!
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