wildsunandmoon Posted December 2, 2014 Posted December 2, 2014 Last night I had a phone conversation with a guy that I've been seeing for almost a month and a half now. I told him that I respected whatever we have and that I don't go off running my mouth about the intimate details of what goes on between us. I apologized for seeking advice before we started seeing each other from other people. Then I proceeded to say that I don't want him to feel any pressure and to take it at a pace that he's comfortable with. For things to happen naturally. He said he completely understood and apologized that I felt that way for a while. He said he knows where I am coming from and said that this is a conversation that "we should talk about more in person". The dynamic between us is a bit strange. When I visit his house, I usually sleep with him in his room. He embraces me, holds my hand, kisses me and sometimes, we will have sex. When we are around our friends, he speaks to them more than he speaks to me. He doesn't go out of his way to hold a conversation with me. At times, he is affectionate with me in front of them and other times he isn't. We had this phone conversation about 5 pm yesterday. He texted me briefly around 8. When I answered him, he did not respond. The same thing for today. I asked him something around 2 pm and he has NOT responded to me AT ALL today. I am worried. Does this mean he is going to reject me the next time I see him and we "talk about it in person"? Should I anticipate the worst? I am so worried. Will he reject me?
StalwartMind Posted December 2, 2014 Posted December 2, 2014 You are panicking and it makes fear take over your emotions. Not to make matters worse, but there is nothing wrong with being prepared or mentally prepare you for the worst. After all this is your life and it's in your best interest to ensure you are comfortable. With that said, it can be unhealthy to speculate about things that might have no substance at all to it. Some people have no awareness at all of their surroundings and in addition to that, they will not be considerate at all of including you in conversations with friends etc. Other people whom are extremely aware will pay great attention to how others behave in said situations. This might be bringing up a completely different topic but, you would likely fare much better in an environment and with someone whom can relate to said feelings. You may be completely alright and content with how it is, but I'm just saying i know people whom would feel completely out of place/left out if they had to deal with that. There really is no way of knowing what will happen, and this may not of brought you any kind of comfort but you really just have to wait and see. For whatever it's worth I can't see any reason as to why he would reject you, it really depends on too many factors between you and him that have not been written.
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