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So I broke up with a girl late January

 

I am going to see her on Saturday night at a party

 

We spoke for 6 weeks and things were going great before she told me she wasnt attracted to me

 

To be honest I looked pretty ugly back then and have sinced improved my looks dramatically (i wont mention how or what has changed, but i look very different these days, to the point where I am now getting attention from other girls - something that never used to happen)

 

To be honest I really want her back and in a way I am still hopeful that she may now find me attractive

 

I have moved past her (and she actually caused 2 of the worst months of my life falling into depression - in a way this is what caused me to completely change myself) but I still want to be with her. Put it this way Ive never found a girl like her. She is a great girl. She basically told me that she thought I was a great guy and that she loved me in messages and on the phone, but wasnt attracted to me when we met up in person

 

Now comes my question

 

How do i act when I see her? Do i play the cold card and see if she is interested? Or do i play the im happy card and that nothing has bothered me and that I am willing to give it a shot

 

Do i speak to her first or do i let her say hi first?

 

After she says hi, do I start asking her about her life or do i play ignorant?

 

 

What would get her interested in me again? How can I approach this so that she reconsiders

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Just be yourself..don't play games. Good luck.

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