fred123 Posted December 1, 2014 Posted December 1, 2014 people talk about how they like this guy or girl etc. but what does it mean when you say i really like you or i like you. what would you interpret that to be? romantic interest or just friends (friend zoned)
d0nnivain Posted December 1, 2014 Posted December 1, 2014 Usually it's an indication of romantic interest. However, if it's the same girl you are STILL hung up on, it was simply a lie. Sorry.
Author fred123 Posted December 1, 2014 Author Posted December 1, 2014 thanx. yh I'm still hung up on it. I'm trying to learn not to make the same mistakes with new girls. unfortunately i am very insecure and have low self esteem these days because of it. I am trying to read signals and signs a lot better and learn. Girls are put off by me now because i am insecure. For example last week i asked this girl " if we go out for a drink to a bar are we allowed to kiss someone else because we are technically not in a real relationship" She thought i was nuts. i didn't understand why
d0nnivain Posted December 1, 2014 Posted December 1, 2014 That Q does make you sound nuts. One date / drink does not an exclusive relationship make which is a universal truth. You need not have asked & she was pt off by the fact that you did. No talk about relationships or exclusivity until you have been on at least 2 dates with the same person preferably a lot more. Then you can talk about not seeing other but until then assume there are no commitments on either side & act accordingly. I am sorry that other girl did a number on your head but I'm glad to see you are still out there trying.
Author fred123 Posted December 2, 2014 Author Posted December 2, 2014 so am i allowed to kiss another girl in front of her? if we are not in a rship?
d0nnivain Posted December 2, 2014 Posted December 2, 2014 so am i allowed to kiss another girl in front of her? if we are not in a rship? In front of her? Of course not. That is just rude. But then again it depends on the kiss. If it's somebody you have known forever & always greet with a peck on the cheek, no problem. For you to have your tongue down somebody else's throat in front of her, no way.
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