Is it a bad sign that he wants"to talk about it more in person"after a serious convo?

[wildsunandmoon]

I’m really confused and a bit worried. I would appreciate any help given!

 

I just got off the phone with this guy I’ve been seeing. I wanted to talk to him about how I respect “whatever this is” and that I don’t let my mouth keep running about what we do together. Initially, I spoke to other people about what happened because I was confused since I normally don’t start things off on a sexual note. Especially with someone I’m genuinely interested in.

Then I told him to take it at his own pace and not to think there’s any pressure on him. I told him that I was also going with the flow and allowing things to happen naturally, despite how much people have told him to date me and “go for it” with me.

 

It’s strange because he lives in the house where all of my friends live in, so I see him almost every weekend. I sleep with him in his room. He holds me, kisses me and sometimes, we have sex. There are times he is affectionate with me in front other people, and other times he barely talks to me and talks to everyone else. He doesn’t go out of his way to hold a conversation with me when we’re all hanging out at the house.

 

His response what that he apologize that I felt this way and that he’s understands completely. He said that it’s all right and that he didn’t think anything of it.

 

Then he said “This is a conversation we should have more in person”.

I’m worried because does this mean he wants to reject me formally in person?

 

I spoke to him yesterday and he hasn’t texted me at all today.

He wants to talk in person, is this a bad thing? Should I anticipate the worst??

[Mrin]

I can't say if it is good or bad but it is entirely appropriate to want to have a conversation such as that in person. If anything it means that he's a decent human being and wants to treat you respectfully. Whether that is to reject you or the opposite is impossible for me to say.