mortensorchid Posted December 1, 2014 Posted December 1, 2014 I have this problem, and the fact of the matter is that I am a bit on the odd side. I have artistic tendencies, I have quirky interests, and in general I enjoy life quite a bit because of it. I'm not into football, mainstream music or things like that, I enjoy toys, movies, traveling, creating art, comics, etc. Problem? I don't really have any problems save for the fact that I have been ostracized by all those I went to high school with and fellow coworkers over the years, but I realize that many of them are jealous of me and how exciting I make things for myself. When I meet a new person, I stay in the shadows and let them tell me about themselves so that they can't get any information about me and use it against me. One would say that one should only gravitate towards like minded people, which I do most of the time. And I have encountered those who share the same interests and opinions that I have. If anything, I am pleasant and cheerful to be around, and yet I see so many who would rather have trashy girls or bitches than me. Am I just a Nice Girl who finished last after all?
thelonewolflegend Posted December 1, 2014 Posted December 1, 2014 im on the same boat you are my only passions are wrestling video games and basketball and i cant really seem to meet any women most wrestling fans you know what they look like same with gamer girls haha so its hard to find someone i am attracted to who likes similar interests. I really dont care anymore I just want to have friends meet women period be like other guys who screw 100 women I know that dude didnt have same interests as those 100 women what gives!?
Rejected Rosebud Posted December 2, 2014 Posted December 2, 2014 I have been ostracized by all those I went to high school with and fellow coworkers over the years, but I realize that many of them are jealous of me and how exciting I make things for myself. Really? If you are getting on in your life and not keeping friends around you I bet it's not really because they're jealous of you and especially not for that reason! How would they know how exciting you make things for yourself??? When I meet a new person, I stay in the shadows and let them tell me about themselves so that they can't get any information about me and use it against me. I guess that is why you don't have friends? Cause that's no way to make friends, what are you afraid they're going to be using against you anyway? If anything, I am pleasant and cheerful to be around, and yet I see so many who would rather have trashy girls or bitches than me. Well that doesn't make you sound like a "nice girl," how do you know these women are trashy or bitches, maybe they have a lot of good qualities that the guys are looking for. Am I just a Nice Girl who finished last after all? I missed the nice part, anyway I have a feeling from reading your posts that you are the one responsible for your situation, most of us are, and if you would like it to be different you might have to take a good honest look at yourself and maybe make some changes, or else just be happy by yourself feeling superior. 1
Lernaean_Hydra Posted December 2, 2014 Posted December 2, 2014 I have this problem, and the fact of the matter is that I am a bit on the odd side. I have artistic tendencies, I have quirky interests, and in general I enjoy life quite a bit because of it. I'm not into football, mainstream music or things like that, I enjoy toys, movies, traveling, creating art, comics, etc. Problem? I don't really have any problems save for the fact that I have been ostracized by all those I went to high school with and fellow coworkers over the years, but I realize that many of them are jealous of me and how exciting I make things for myself. When I meet a new person, I stay in the shadows and let them tell me about themselves so that they can't get any information about me and use it against me. One would say that one should only gravitate towards like minded people, which I do most of the time. And I have encountered those who share the same interests and opinions that I have. If anything, I am pleasant and cheerful to be around, and yet I see so many who would rather have trashy girls or bitches than me. Am I just a Nice Girl who finished last after all? I don't quite think "jealousy" is the issue here. It sounds much more like you're standoffish and reticent and thus people quickly tire of trying to make connections with you. The fact that you don't confide in people but rather allow them to confide in you so they can't use something against you is another reason why you probably don't have friends. You sound difficult to deal with and very quiet. No one likes to feel like they're talking to a brick wall. Despite your assertion that you're "pleasant and cheerful to be around", I have my doubts. Plus the fact that you seem to think that the people others choose to keep company with are "trashy" or "bitches" is quite telling. In fact, it's you who seems to be jealous here. Perhaps those "trashy bitches" are more interesting and fun to be around and possibly more open and communicative than yourself? Whatever the case, not to knock you but nothing in what you wrote makes you seem like a "nice girl". 1
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