JamesWills22 Posted December 1, 2014 Posted December 1, 2014 I want my ex back, and I stand by that with pretty much everything I have. It's been an issue I've had for quite a while now, at first when I met her I remember being rather care free about flirting with her like anybody is in the same position; but after the breakup, after the fights, after pretty much everything I just hold myself back from trying to raise attraction, I stopped trying to flirt with her a few months ago so things just, well, slumped. In the times I have flirted with her it usually was at a bad time say when she just started to like another guy or she was just majorly depressed, timing is crucial but literally it's so incredibly difficult to actually see when it is at a good time to make a move. I have only tried about two times, you can guess things never picked up from that. I just, I don't know, I want her back but I just don't know how, part of me says try to get on a better level as a friend first but the other says she wouldn't want to get closer unless there is interest on her side for something more. Ideas?
love2ride Posted December 1, 2014 Posted December 1, 2014 Man i dunno about the friend thing, it didn't work for me. I just got hurt all over again. The only thing I can say is go out one time, be amazing, have an amazing time. Don't bring up the relationship, don't act like your needy, just have fun. Then go NC, make her think about that great time and then make her miss you. See if she contacts you. If she doesn't, give up move on.
JDPT Posted December 1, 2014 Posted December 1, 2014 I suppose I'm feeling the same. Making a connection with anyone is almost impossible why??? because I don't even give it a shot!!! I need to get out there more and start to break away from this fear I've been in for too long, yes I don't want to be rejected but I will and you know what I've been rejected in the past and it'll be fine I'll live. 1
Author JamesWills22 Posted December 1, 2014 Author Posted December 1, 2014 I'm in the position I can't even meet up with her, there was talk about it two weeks ago but without a solid reason I don't think she is that interested at all.
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