tillytulip Posted December 1, 2014 Posted December 1, 2014 Hi guys, i'm in the process of moving on after a 2 year relationship with a wrong person (yes, his married). Too many broken promises and disappointment. He has strung me along with false hope and thrown me under the bus again and again. I've lived with him for a year and a half and loved him unconditionally but now that his wife knows, he choose to kick me out of his life like i've never existed. Being with a man like this has wasted so much of my time and the last thing i want is to waste more years of my life missing and thinking about him when i can move on and be happy. Please tell me how have you guys gotten over someone you love. And what do you do to stop the missing and the urge to know how they're doing. Also, does NC really works to help the feeling fade? or is it a case of absence making the heart fonder?
me85 Posted December 1, 2014 Posted December 1, 2014 I'm sorry you're hurting. There's no answer I can give you. You just have to live your life and try to open to other opportunities with other men. Men who aren't married or in a RS. Keep yourself busy if you can. NC has it's pros and cons but it really is for the best.
LostInLosingLove Posted December 2, 2014 Posted December 2, 2014 And what do you do to stop the missing and the urge to know how they're doing. I admit to myself that because I love her, she is better off with someone else-who is deserving of her and whom can provide everything she feels she needs. At first, this hurts. But the more I think of her being happy with someone and truly fulfilled: her happiness starts to take over my own pain until it becomes an acceptance. The missing gets lost somewhere along the way.
DenverDude Posted December 2, 2014 Posted December 2, 2014 Wish I had some answers for you, but it's different for everyone. I miss my ex tremendously. I have been keeping busy working out, meeting new people, talking to new girls, and staying REALLY busy at work. Some days I feel like I am fine, but others I miss the crap out of her. 1
Michael 93 Posted December 2, 2014 Posted December 2, 2014 How long? As long as it takes for you to fully give up hope. Depends on how much you loved them really.. From the time you make a concious effort to fully let go.
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