gustavo777 Posted December 1, 2014 Posted December 1, 2014 the birthday of my ex is coming soon, should i give her a call ? she called me on my birthday
Mi7522 Posted December 1, 2014 Posted December 1, 2014 I wouldn't do anything unless you're prepared for getting the resonse you don't want to hear. I sent my ex one and wish I never did looking back on it. You're broken up so you owe her nothing anymore. Treat as just another day and be happy. You'll thank yourself later 2
6Pack Posted December 1, 2014 Posted December 1, 2014 I agree; if this person is resisting any effort to get back together, then I would say do not wish her a happy birthday. My ex's birthday was in October, and I intentionally did not wish her a happy birthday. I did not check her page or anything. The only thing I saw about her was that a mutual friend on FB changed her Main Picture to be a photo of the two of them (an older photo). But beyond that, I have no idea what she did, etc. I feel like I sent a strong message by not wishing her happy birthday. I know she felt that. I also did not wish her happy thanksgiving. You have to focus on yourself and building a new life, a better life, without them. You find a new life with better people and better experiences (even though that may seem tough to find at first).
dumbass2 Posted December 1, 2014 Posted December 1, 2014 I think it does depend. If you are not over her and she has not been initiating contact with substance for a while, then absolutely no way. If you are in constant contact and trying to work things out and they are progressing, then ok.
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