ExpatInItaly Posted December 1, 2014 Posted December 1, 2014 Aren't you the same poster who exclaimed you felt like "beating the hell out of women" because you're frustrated by your lack of success? That pretty sums it all up. 1
d0nnivain Posted December 1, 2014 Posted December 1, 2014 OP -- What were all those "report this message for inappropriate content" references in what you posted? Did LS do that? If it was on the dating site, that is part of your problem. Assuming that message didn't appear on the dating site, the conversation seemed OK. Not too pushy & she gave you her # so that's good. Now that you have it, I take it she's too busy. It may be the time of year. If she has work, school, dance & the holidays, that is a lot. Perhaps you could offer to meet her after dance or class.
Author thelonewolflegend Posted December 1, 2014 Author Posted December 1, 2014 ok what can i put on my profile to get women all types interested in me?? easygoing laid back sounds generic HELP! thanks
jcrew11 Posted December 1, 2014 Posted December 1, 2014 did u ever try going to church or the gym to meet women? i hear a lot of women play world of warcraft.
Author thelonewolflegend Posted December 2, 2014 Author Posted December 2, 2014 ok i need those sns deleted please and also i go to the gym already and i cannot go anywhere at moment not able to drive plz help thinx beer.
Chemist Posted December 2, 2014 Posted December 2, 2014 Well, I post a hard truth. You come off as a D bag. I'm not saying you are one, but man... I party like its 1999. i am americas next top model. i never perspire. my strengths outweigh my weaknesses. i am constantly caller number 9 and win tickets to all the best shows. i bat 400. i have made extraordinary four course meals using only a spatula and a toaster oven. im a stellar hugger and a world class cuddler. i dance with the stars. i consistently beat Chuck Norris in arm-wrestling. i once read paradise lost, the odyssey and war & peace all in one day and still had time to refurbish an entire dining room that evening. i shower daily. critics worldwide swoon over my original line of corduroy evening wear. sushi is my favorite food group. i bake 30 minute brownies in 20 minutes flat. moms love me and children wanna be me. i know the exact location of every item in the supermarket. i always pick the most fullest and symetrical christmas trees. on wednesdays, after practice, i repair electrical appliances free of charge. i eat soup, i'm a go-getta. i sleep once a day. basically...i rockThis is seriously written like an only child 10 year old wrote it. All I see is you really bragging about yourself, being confident is great, but this goes over board. You need to convey to people who you are in your message, and the message I am getting is probably not the one you want to send. For someone who read three books in a single evening, you're writing style is a bit dull, same sentence structures through out, and terrible punctuation. Commas and capitalization are not over rated. Try to think about who you are, what you like and write about that. Don't act like your selling yourself to women in a paragraph. For instance, try rewording things and changing it up. Cooking is fantastic fun, especially when you're doin' it Restaurant Impossible style! Content wise, is showering daily really necessary to add there? Would you like a cookie for having adult hygine? Also, what kind of girls do you want to attract? We're not old by any means, but parting like is 1999 is something I did in high school. If no one is gonna say it, I will, sorry to be harsh, but if you really want to improve, you need to write something that will draw interest to yourself. Also, sleeveless denim. Shudder. 1
d0nnivain Posted December 2, 2014 Posted December 2, 2014 Lose the group picture. You come off as a party animal, not someone in search of love. You say you are in real estate. Write your profile as if trying to sell a house. If you can't write that talk to the person in your office who writes the copy for your listings & get them to help you. an OL profile is marketing. What you have reads like bad copy for a Dos XX's beer commercial a/k/a I'm the most interesting man in the world. Nobody thinks a guy from a beer commercial is serious. Since you are in real estate, add a photo of you in a collared shirt. All the t shirt photos also lead to the conclusion that you are all about partying not about having a serious relationship. I would never buy a house from your casual self & a LTR is as serious of an investment.
Author thelonewolflegend Posted December 2, 2014 Author Posted December 2, 2014 you guys dont seem to understand sarcasm n things like that i think why you have trouble with women n being on here you have to be witty make fun of them not take life serious etc and i thought thats badass biker pic girls like rough lookin guys
doeblin Posted December 2, 2014 Posted December 2, 2014 (edited) you guys dont seem to understand sarcasm n things like that i think why you have trouble with women n being on here you have to be witty make fun of them not take life serious etc and i thought thats badass biker pic girls like rough lookin guys HAHAHA Listen, you came here for advice. Take it or leave it. Write a proper bio, get better photos etc. Like people said, OLD is a bit like selling a house. But I still think that the most important bit is to get your sh*t together IRL. Edited December 3, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Edited for content
elaine567 Posted December 2, 2014 Posted December 2, 2014 You look all right, not great, but you have potential. You look too casual maybe and could be mistaken for a bit of a slob. Get a new wardrobe. However your profile is childish and you do not seem to be someone to take seriously as a date. At 27, it is great in some circles to be young thinking and a party animal, but you do sound like a 16 year old, and that for women of that age group, who are looking to settle down, looking to have kids may be, looking for a serious relationship, you come across as being just a grown up kid, and that is not attractive. Humour is good, but sentence structure and grammar matters too. tl:dr may be a issue, with no paragraphs to split it up. I note you were in a 3 year relationship, are you "damaged"? If so, women will see through that, any sign of upset, depression and especially bitterness or aggression, is a big turn off. Some hurt people, wear their hearts on their sleeve, make sure you are aware of how you come across, ask your friends for their honest opinion Do your "jokes", have a nasty twist to them, some hurt people are just too cynical and that is also not attractive to people who do not know them and that can be off putting and even embarrassing. Work on yourself.
Rejected Rosebud Posted December 2, 2014 Posted December 2, 2014 ok i need those sns deleted please and also i go to the gym already and i cannot go anywhere at moment not able to drive plz help thinx beer. What does this mean? Why can't you drive? What is thinx beer?
Omei Posted December 2, 2014 Posted December 2, 2014 After reading that POF profile I think we've been trolled mega hard lol 1
Chemist Posted December 2, 2014 Posted December 2, 2014 you guys dont seem to understand sarcasm n things like that i think why you have trouble with women n being on here you have to be witty make fun of them not take life serious etc and i thought thats badass biker pic girls like rough lookin guys What things like sarcasm don't I understand? There's so many things like it in your post. <-- sarcasm I don't think it is our lack of understanding sarcasm, but maybe a failed effort to portray it. Sarcasm should be a contrast to your normal tone, if that was suppose to be sarcasm, your whole post is sarcastic and I can't get the contrast without context. Man, you come here for help and get defensive when people are being honest. Self improvement requires that you listen to the criticisms people are willing to give. Don't accept them flat out, but consider them. Finally, your not a bad lookin dude, probably in a little better shape than me, but at 30, I have been with many quality chicks, so take it from me when I say you can improve the way your personality comes across... especially if any of the stuff you have said in your posts is showing in real life. You look soft and not like a bad ass biker... be who you are, not what you think women will want. Use a couple normal pictures, things where you're doing some activities and not posing to and trying to look suave.
Author thelonewolflegend Posted December 2, 2014 Author Posted December 2, 2014 can i seriously talk to someone on skype? how can i be suave ive only slept with 6 girls that is no good need to b at 100 be4 death.
Toodaloo Posted December 2, 2014 Posted December 2, 2014 you guys dont seem to understand sarcasm n things like that i think why you have trouble with women n being on here you have to be witty make fun of them not take life serious etc and i thought thats badass biker pic girls like rough lookin guys You don't look rocking or rough... you look like you are playing dress up... the projection in your profile is very childish and not at all grown up. Wear the clothes you are comfortable in. Seriously the way you are coming across is really really bad... You "have" to sleep with 100 women??? Yeah ok... I am walking... Listen to the advice you have been given or don't that is your choice and you are the one that faces the consequences. As one poster put it - get your s**t together in real life.
Author thelonewolflegend Posted December 2, 2014 Author Posted December 2, 2014 How do i look like that? What do i need to work on???
Rejected Rosebud Posted December 2, 2014 Posted December 2, 2014 can i seriously talk to someone on skype? how can i be suave ive only slept with 6 girls that is no good need to b at 100 be4 death. I'm afraid it's time to resign yourself to failure! All this is what makes women run like the wind in the opposite direction from you.
preraph Posted December 2, 2014 Posted December 2, 2014 Bro relax, not having a woman isn't the end of the world. It's something that takes time. Take your time, there's no rush. Thank you. Boy, that's something you don't hear often on here. OP, you do come off as entitled, like just because you want it, it should be provided. Not so. I suggest you be sure and take care of your own sexual needs alone in the privacy of your room and get used to it and then follow the advice about focusing on other activities.
d0nnivain Posted December 2, 2014 Posted December 2, 2014 can i seriously talk to someone on skype? how can i be suave ive only slept with 6 girls that is no good need to b at 100 be4 death. Therein lies one of your problems. Your mindset is screwed up. More is not more when it comes to the number of women you have slept with. Less is more. Six is fine. I promise, the women you are striking out with sense that this is just a #s game to you & you are only looking for more notches on your bed post. Also since your sarcastic tough biker dude shtick isn't working why won't you try a more conventional approach? The hallmark of insanity is doing the same thing over & over but expecting a different result. 2
Redhead14 Posted December 3, 2014 Posted December 3, 2014 (edited) Originally Posted by thelonewolflegend I am not a virgin. I was in 2 long relationships. I am not giving off a desperate vibe when i chat with women I send them a message then i ask them questions and get them to try to hangout what else do you do? I do know how to speak english and use punctuation, only when I am on my phone I have issues. I have taken time I am 27!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I want to have parties with women!!!!!!!!!!!! I said I want women women women ebhebthebthbehbte I will not carry a purse I will NOT date a mens I will only love a women. I dont have any of those and my testosterone is getting up there since I started working out few weeks ago. Please help find me a women my mom told my dad to get me one and he said I have to do it myself I need a nice young girl my mom said get a mail order one. I would appreciate all your guys help because its angering me inside. because its angering me inside -- This is the root of your issue here. The anger inside you is not about this situation. I recommend counseling. There is a deeper issue here that needs to be addressed. Misogyny comes to mind. You need to get things under control. You say you are not giving off a desperate vibe when messaging, but I promise you if you do meet a woman in person you will wreak of desperation and a smart woman will back off immediately. She will feel unsafe. I'm being very pointed and harsh here because I am feeling that way just reading all this. I mean this in a very sincere and caring way, please take some time to step back from dating and work on yourself. Edited December 3, 2014 by Redhead14 2
Author thelonewolflegend Posted December 5, 2014 Author Posted December 5, 2014 well if that was true i wouldnt b etalking ot seeing any women
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