TigerLilly78 Posted November 30, 2014 Posted November 30, 2014 So I log into my fb yesterday to see an engagement announcement one automatically thinks great news! then it hits me who it is and who the blushing bride is..the dude is a guy who ive been good friends with via internet for a long time we use to talk a lot. Anyways he just got himself out of a very bad living situation with a married women who had him and other guys living with her under the pretense of being "roommates" wink wink.. Needless to say she never left her husband for my friend. and it pretty much destroyed him we all watched many a fb melt down 1st hand..So fast forward and the ice queen finally dumps him for good and he moves away for good this time..were all happy for him.. Now it seams hes gotten back with his 1st ex the one he had a kid with the same women hes tried to get back with a few times only to have her twist a knife in his side. It was so bad apparently he once told me she was the women who messed him up in the head and made him unable to have healthy relationships in the 1st place. I guess why im posting this is I really don't understand why a man would put himself thu this much and then go back to toxic women like this? I know hes got a kid with her and all but really? why do some people just seam to want to keep going back into toxic situations and not try to find a new healthy relashionship? I congraulated them but honestly I know things will more then likely lead to many more meltdowns sadly...
evanescentworld Posted November 30, 2014 Posted November 30, 2014 I could give you all kinds of philosophical reasons, theories and suggestions, but in the end, people do what they believe will bring them happiness, but they grasp at straws...
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