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Does he just want sex or does he actually care for me?


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23 year old guy I'm seeing loves to squeeze me on the waist, touch my back gently and when he holds my hands he loves to rub my fingers. He often puts his head on my shoulders or on top of my head. He often squeezes my cheeks and brush my hair off my face. He likes to spoon feed me ice cream and he likes to be fed too. When we hug goodbye he always hugs for a really long time and strokes my back. We will pull away and hug each other a second time after looking at each other's eyes. He likes to squeeze my cheeks and smile at me and brush my hair from my eyes. He always texts me to see if I'm free and he likes to spend his free time with me even if it's out of the way. We will watch movies, eat, have coffee etc. we take it in turns to pay. We can talk for hours. Does he really likes me or does he just want to sleep with me?

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You're a young woman. Of course he wants to sleep with you. He seems to be acting nice enough now, but then, most men do when they're trying to get a woman into bed.

 

You won't really know until after.

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We can talk for hours. Does he really likes me or does he just want to sleep with me?

 

Really?

 

No he doesn't like you and he doesn't want to have sex with you. He's probably dating and having sex with another woman. One with confidence.

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23 year old guy I'm seeing loves to squeeze me on the waist, touch my back gently and when he holds my hands he loves to rub my fingers. He often puts his head on my shoulders or on top of my head. He often squeezes my cheeks and brush my hair off my face. He likes to spoon feed me ice cream and he likes to be fed too. When we hug goodbye he always hugs for a really long time and strokes my back. We will pull away and hug each other a second time after looking at each other's eyes. He likes to squeeze my cheeks and smile at me and brush my hair from my eyes. He always texts me to see if I'm free and he likes to spend his free time with me even if it's out of the way. We will watch movies, eat, have coffee etc. we take it in turns to pay. We can talk for hours. Does he really likes me or does he just want to sleep with me?

 

He sounds like he is great, and you two obviously get on well, but Telfan although a bit cynical is correct, we cannot tell if he likes you, loves you or only wants to sleep with you. Time will tell.

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You'll only find out if he makes you a girlfriend.

 

(No sex before commitment!)

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The way I feel that it works for women more and more is that they are attracted to so few of their options, they have to see it through whether the guy is a player or has genuine intentions.

 

I mean, it's not gonna be the case where the woman goes for an unattractive suitor who has genuine intentions, so it's kind of a moot point.

 

Just date him and see what happens.

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If he cares about you he will show it in other ways besides touching you all the time. He will see to your wellbeing, protect you, take an interest in any problems you have that he might be able to help with, fix things that break, and generally be a big support for you.

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