pies Posted November 30, 2014 Posted November 30, 2014 I was seeing this guy earlier this year but we agreed not to go LDR since he was being transferred to another state for a year. Right after he left we got into this huge argument and spent like 2 months of almost NC, but he came back to his hometown for a week to pick stuff up and we met up and he told me that during that time he had purposely grown away from me so that parting wouldn't be as painful. I doubted his feelings for me, being so (apparently?) easily able to let go. After a while we began speaking regularly just like before. I got carried away and hinted that I wanted to visit, which he kinda discouraged me from doing. I felt sent back to square one so I tried distancing myself, and now a few weeks later, out of the blue, something about his attitude seems to have changed. He's being particularly attentive, talkative, actually asking me to go and visit him around Memorial Day (his own idea)... Now he is making plans with me so many months in advance? What’s going on here? He’s coming home next week for xmas and right now I’m utterly confused by his sudden change of behavior. Could he have changed his mind? I have no idea what he's been up to these months (regarding other women), but I can't help but getting my hopes up. I would appreciate some warning and advice, I can't be impartial here.
Frank2thepoint Posted November 30, 2014 Posted November 30, 2014 He probably began entertaining the idea of restarting the relationship, after you dropped the hint that you would visit him. It all really just takes a spark to start a fire. Concerning if he's dated other women, he may have or may not. Do not worry about it right now, especially since you guys aren't together. Only discuss it if you guys get back together.
Author pies Posted November 30, 2014 Author Posted November 30, 2014 Yeah, that's the possibility I'm looking into. I hope not to be wrong!
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