km10 Posted November 30, 2014 Posted November 30, 2014 I'm 22 and My Girlfriend (21) of 14 months decided to end things last night .she was my first girlfriend and first love. She thinks weve run our course and wants different things from life than me. Strange because things were going great had loads of plans together and done so much together lots of holidays and family events road trips, talked about our future together etc. I wouldnt wish this feeling on anyone horrible feeling . Ive never really cried before until now. Feels like Ive lost interest in everything. Anyone have any words of advice from past experiences or in the same boat. before the relationship I felt so confident(some friends would even say cocky) now i feel like im dead inside couldnt imagine talking to a girl even and cant picture myself getting anyone again.
d0nnivain Posted November 30, 2014 Posted November 30, 2014 You are grieving. It will be painful for a while but you will get through it. Hang in there.
Brimstone Posted November 30, 2014 Posted November 30, 2014 All of those feelings are normal. Losing your first love is not easy, but you should start focusing on yourself now. Set yourself a timeframe. 2 weeks, 4 weeks or 6 weeks. Cry. Eat junkfood. Watch movies. Sleep all day. After your set timeframe ends, wake up every morning and greet yourself in the mirror with a smile and say "everything will be okay". Then hit the gym. You're hurting right now, and it's okay. You'll get through it. I recently got through my struggles, with the help from some close friends and the kind people on here. Use this place to vent any unresolved feelings. Just putting them down in words helped me heaps. Stay strong, you'll get through.
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