kryptonide Posted November 30, 2014 Posted November 30, 2014 So we dated like 10 months and we we're deeply in love i was her second and she was my first gf and at that time i was really thinking of marriage and stuff<3 after 2-3 or months i introduced her to my best friend and actually told them to talk to eachother so she can meet and know my friends now before u tell me that she didn't loved me or else.. know this! after 5 months of relationship her NAZI DAD forbidden her to see me anymore but even through that hell she kept being with me for 5 months (she-s18 me 20) she even tried to confront him for me coz i never met him anyways only her mom furthermore last month of the relationship she gave a lot of red signds and as i was still deeply in love i didn't saw them and she was mentioning breaking up more often but i thought it's just one of her moments and neah i was nevermind :\ but now i see that was the time when he (DAT TRAITOROUS DEVIL!) started flirting with her a lot and he was giving me bull**** like : why don't u understand she doesn't love u anymore? let her free bla bla bull**** like that.. only to get her! ( he is an attention whore coz he got rejected by any girl he tried to hook up) after the break up i told him i will end the friendship if he doesn't leave her alone , fine he promised he will stop all contact with her until last evening i caught them both in the act ! in an old place i was meeting with her when we we're togheder.. they were laughing and being happy till i showed up and awkard silence began, he didn't spoke a word! she became defensive and felt threatened but i wasn't rude instead i trolled them a little and i've told them in the face i've cut them both out of my life and i acted happy coz i was! and left them both there in the dark went home blocked them everywhere dat's it! he is a depressive liar and with this cheating he lost more friends than only me, i think every1 lost his trust, i am sure she will leave him too , coz an hidden relationship won't work!they are trying to hide it so hard but they're failing even harder, he keept saying lies and ****s and he was being so fake... i feel like she is hi's victim here coz i am sure that he only wants to f*ck her and i told him clearly if the touches her he should find another city to hide in, im actually grateful for her coz she thru this cheating she made me open my eyes and see how many true or fake friends i have xD seems there are more like him mlel :v i could easily break theyr so called "hidden relationship" by talking with her mom or dad but i dunno yet i guess i'll leave them alone and let Karma/God take care of them, best revenge is succes right? meanwhile i'm gonna be more open to other girls coz i got numerous signals from 4-5 girls while i was with her but i am still thinking if i should give her another shot if she comes back crawling after theyr cheating will end, so why you guys think?
evanescentworld Posted November 30, 2014 Posted November 30, 2014 I think 1) English is not your first language, right? 2) You are way, way, W-A-Y too young to be thinking of a permanent relationship with this girl. You're both too young. 3) Enjoy life. Go out. Date, meet other people (both guys and gals) and just relax. Life, at your age, should not be so intense or serious. 4) If they are more attracted to one another, she to him, then obviously something more attractive pulled her that way. Don't sweat it. Get over it. Being happy with yourself is the best thing you could show. 5) Karma/God will do nothing. They haven't done anything that warrants any form of judgement and revenge (Karma doesn't do that anyway, it's not a get-back) they're just being young, too....so leave them be, let it go, and move on. Is what I think.
Author kryptonide Posted November 30, 2014 Author Posted November 30, 2014 something more attractive? i don't want to sound narcissistic but phisically i exceed in every way and i'm leagues above him those love chemicals that come up in your brain in the first few months doesn't really mean she found something more attractive but the intension of doing something which is forbidden and wrong and checking the "grass on the other side" hehe , after the honey-moon phase will pass she'll open her eyes not to mention everytime we met after the break-up she keeps mentioning of how hot i am and ends up staring like a freak :| besides teenage girls don't know what they want they just explore posibilities and if they get attention they begin to feel important and desired and bull**** like that , regarding of the regret that it's coming up next... and yes english is not my main language!
evanescentworld Posted November 30, 2014 Posted November 30, 2014 something more attractive? i don't want to sound narcissistic but phisically i exceed in every way and i'm leagues above him Yeah... George Clooney is far more attractive than my husband... much richer, very talented, and a great man. I'd still pick my H every time, because he 'does' it for me. It's not about what you have or lack. It's about what he has that's different to you. And she obviously sees something in him she likes, that she doesn't see in you. Suck it up hun... you could have a thousand '[advantages' over other guys. it doesn't mean you'll always get the girl. those love chemicals that come up in your brain in the first few months doesn't really mean she found something more attractive but the intension of doing something which is forbidden and wrong and checking the "grass on the other side" hehe , Doesn't change a fact. She still chose him, whatever the reason. after the honey-moon phase will pass she'll open her eyes not to mention everytime we met after the break-up she keeps mentioning of how hot i am and ends up staring like a freak :| Then I wouldn't date her, if she is this two-faced. Surely, you'd like someone more reliable, more adoring, more faithful? besides teenage girls don't know what they want they just explore posibilities and if they get attention they begin to feel important and desired and bull**** like that , regarding of the regret that it's coming up next... I hate to tell you but teen boys are worse. And I will let you know now, even you are not fully mentally mature yet, so your post sounds arrogant and big-headed. But that's ok, because cock-sure teenage bravado is natural.... and yes english is not my main language! You're doing ok....
Author kryptonide Posted November 30, 2014 Author Posted November 30, 2014 well most teenage girls become like this become of the hoeish boys who cheat on them and break theyr trust.. no wonder they do the same to theyr next partner... whatever the reason? she is an antisocial introvert and he gave her a lot of attention like a lot,guess he even flirted and told her lies about me :\ yeah just found out he was the reason of the break - up of another friend of mine :|
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