nv19 Posted November 30, 2014 Posted November 30, 2014 I have a girlfriend who likes to see me give oral to other guys. She claims to be 100% lesbian but we have an open relationship. And she doesn't mind adding as guy to the relationship as long as she can watch but he doesn't touch her etc... I'm bisexual I mainly like girls but I like male genitalia in am certain ways more than female's. Anyhow this sexually excites her yet she claims to not be attracted to men wouldn't her wanting to see make her at least bisexual?
Molly Hooper Posted November 30, 2014 Posted November 30, 2014 Not necessarily - especially since she seems to be turned off to the thought of a guy touching her while in bed with you two. I am a woman, and I read and write M/M porn exclusively. I am super turned on by it. But 100% straight. I know it isn't the same thing because I am a woman and I get turned on by two dudes getting it on, but even the thought of a threesome with my man involves another woman... and that doesn't really get me off in anyway. I think your girl is probably just interested and interested in watching you.
Author nv19 Posted November 30, 2014 Author Posted November 30, 2014 Not necessarily - especially since she seems to be turned off to the thought of a guy touching her while in bed with you two. I am a woman, and I read and write M/M porn exclusively. I am super turned on by it. But 100% straight. I know it isn't the same thing because I am a woman and I get turned on by two dudes getting it on, but even the thought of a threesome with my man involves another woman... and that doesn't really get me off in anyway. I think your girl is probably just interested and interested in watching you. Yeah most straight girls I know like gay porn involving men on men. That's pretty understandable since straight women like men so the more the merrier. I tend to prefer straight/gay porn or any porn more oriented towards guys. I guess I just don't get why seeing a guy nude engaging in a sexual act woyld turn her on. When she thinks guys are unattractive usually.
Author nv19 Posted November 30, 2014 Author Posted November 30, 2014 It's also a bit weird because she prefers lesbian themed porn.
pies Posted November 30, 2014 Posted November 30, 2014 I believe that what makes you bisexual is the fact that you are attracted by the opposite and the same sex. If she's turned on by watching hetero sex it doesn't necessarily mean she's bisexual. She's not attracted by the guy, just turned on by the situation itself. Many heterosexual women prefer gay or lesbian porn and they're still straight. Just think of it as a fantasy.
you_can_not_see_me Posted November 30, 2014 Posted November 30, 2014 I have a girlfriend who likes to see me give oral to other guys. She claims to be 100% lesbian but we have an open relationship. And she doesn't mind adding as guy to the relationship as long as she can watch but he doesn't touch her etc... I'm bisexual I mainly like girls but I like male genitalia in am certain ways more than female's. Anyhow this sexually excites her yet she claims to not be attracted to men wouldn't her wanting to see make her at least bisexual? Its possible, some lesbian women are notorious for being closeted bisexuals, and its certainly more common to hear about a girl who claimed to be lesbian to sleep with men than gay men to sleep with women. In fact a study at one point suggested that almost all women are somewhat bisexual, even supposed straight ones. Study Suggests Difference Between Female And Male Sexuality -- ScienceDaily
Author nv19 Posted December 1, 2014 Author Posted December 1, 2014 I believe that what makes you bisexual is the fact that you are attracted by the opposite and the same sex. If she's turned on by watching hetero sex it doesn't necessarily mean she's bisexual. She's not attracted by the guy, just turned on by the situation itself. Many heterosexual women prefer gay or lesbian porn and they're still straight. Just think of it as a fantasy. I guess you have a point there
Author nv19 Posted December 1, 2014 Author Posted December 1, 2014 Its possible, some lesbian women are notorious for being closeted bisexuals, and its certainly more common to hear about a girl who claimed to be lesbian to sleep with men than gay men to sleep with women. In fact a study at one point suggested that almost all women are somewhat bisexual, even supposed straight ones. Study Suggests Difference Between Female And Male Sexuality -- ScienceDaily Yeah I don't really think any woman just likes men. But I've known lesbians who were only into women. Heterosexuality in women I think is mostly just societal.
you_can_not_see_me Posted December 1, 2014 Posted December 1, 2014 Yeah I don't really think any woman just likes men. But I've known lesbians who were only into women. Heterosexuality in women I think is mostly just societal. nah supposedly there also aren't any 100% lesbian women either, according to the genital arousal test at least. self proclaimed lesbians were also aroused by sexual imagery of men. It does seem though that self proclaimed straight and bisexual women have a stronger preference for men.
mortensorchid Posted December 1, 2014 Posted December 1, 2014 ALL joking aside, when it comes to women and sexuality, it's different. Part of us assumes that because a man is gay and when a woman is gay that they are the same, but they're actually not. Men do not consider "experimentation" to be part of their sexual development while women do. Only 20% of men who consider themselves to be gay have had sex with at least one woman at some point in life, while over 80% of women who consider themselves to be gay have had sex with at least one man at some point. Quite honestly, of the bi girls that I know or have known, most of them do it because it turns on the guys around them or it's considered "cute". I'm not saying that this is your case either, but from what I have seen only a small percentage of women out there have their brains hardwired for p****.
PogoStick Posted December 1, 2014 Posted December 1, 2014 I don't know, but oddly enough, I (a man) have had sex with a married lesbian couple. 2
you_can_not_see_me Posted December 1, 2014 Posted December 1, 2014 I don't know, but oddly enough, I (a man) have had sex with a married lesbian couple. :laugh:there you go. I m not saying lesbians should be pressured to have sex with men, but I am saying that many might be open to play with a dick eventually;)
Nickierose19 Posted December 2, 2014 Posted December 2, 2014 (edited) nah supposedly there also aren't any 100% lesbian women either, according to the genital arousal test at least. self proclaimed lesbians were also aroused by sexual imagery of men. It does seem though that self proclaimed straight and bisexual women have a stronger preference for men. No not true I never get aroused by females seeing a vagina actually makes me feel a little sick. Also it adds transgender people in it and that murks up the truth. Because someone can be transgender and still identify as female. Being transgender has to do with societal norms. Edited December 2, 2014 by Nickierose19
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