once i fall for a girl its over

[RSval]

i become cheesy and to caring and all this stupid stuff

 

i cant help it. at first im just normal , dont act all stupid but once i fall for her im done

 

im basically mr cheesy though some girls seemto like it though itll just push them away

 

it sucks

 

any tips?

 

My personal take, this being "cheesy" is somewhat of a comfort zone to you. It's like an auto response that comes up.

 

Question to ask yourself is where did this auto response come from? Are you moulding it after something that showed you it was all right to be cheesy?

 

Also, it's time to start thinking of the ideal image of yourself. That is the image you truly desire to become when you're with the ladies. Once you got that image, it's time to start acting like it.

 

Finally, there will be loads of resistance. I did it before and true enough it felt really weird. But hey no one grows in their comfort zone right ?

 

Bottomline ... have fun, enjoy the journey and be your best self possible not just for the ladies but for yourself .

 

Hope this helps, happy holidays!

[joebrowndown]

My personal take, this being "cheesy" is somewhat of a comfort zone to you. It's like an auto response that comes up.

 

Question to ask yourself is where did this auto response come from? Are you moulding it after something that showed you it was all right to be cheesy?

 

Also, it's time to start thinking of the ideal image of yourself. That is the image you truly desire to become when you're with the ladies. Once you got that image, it's time to start acting like it.

 

Finally, there will be loads of resistance. I did it before and true enough it felt really weird. But hey no one grows in their comfort zone right ?

 

Bottomline ... have fun, enjoy the journey and be your best self possible not just for the ladies but for yourself .

 

Hope this helps, happy holidays!

 

 

idk where it comes from i like them and i just become cheesy. i canbe serious to but ill also try to be cute and cheeesy