Unsure how to proceed

[canucks52]

so I met this girl 2 months ago through a mutual friend. After 4 dates (~2 weeks) we decided that we wanted to continue seeing each other but would remain single. It was decided by both of us that like we may dance flirt with other people but we wouldn't hookup/ have sex with them. We still at this point are not official but we have gotten a lot closer over the past 2 months and we text/talk everyday.

 

So fast forward to the other night me and my best friend were out with her. My friend and her were talking and my friend was telling her how he lost his brown girl virginity the other day (she's brown) and she told him how she lost her white guy virginity the other week as well (I'm brown too so not me). I was not there when she said that but my friend told me, he swears that's what she said and he was also dd that night, I trust what he says.

 

Also that night was the first night we had sex (she insisted on waiting that long). So I don't know what to do now, should I confront her, ignore it or just leave her. Like she's an awesome girl but I don't want to be in a relationship with someone I can't trust. I'm leaning towards confronting her and then letting her go.

Edited November 29, 2014 by canucks52

[deathandtaxes]

If you're leaning towards letting her go, just let her go. Don't confront her about it if that's your plan. If you still want to see her and this bothers you so much, just have a nice conversation, NOT a confrontation.

[canucks52]

If you're leaning towards letting her go, just let her go. Don't confront her about it if that's your plan. If you still want to see her and this bothers you so much, just have a nice conversation, NOT a confrontation.

 

yea I guess confront her was the wrong way to put it, I'm thinking of having a talk about it with her and then see how it goes from there

Edited November 29, 2014 by canucks52