luvsux69 Posted November 29, 2014 Posted November 29, 2014 I'm in a situation where I've been seeing this girl for 6 months and anytime there is a problem even a minor one she wants to break things off and then a day later she comes back to me and says she misses me. I feel so hurt every time she wants to leave me and everytime I feel like she won't come back to me. Thanksgiving Eve it got really ugly... I met the girl through her roomate and the roomate invited a girl over that went to my high school. When she came in she was shocked to see me and we chatted in the living room. My girl got upset because while she was cleaning and preparing for Thanksgiving and her roomate was getting ready...I was having a long conversation with my friend. She said that she felt ignored because she sat behind me and I didn't even hear her or see her. She said I didn't even include her in the conversation. At one point I actually did inclue her in the conversation and then she went off to go clean again. Once the roomate and my friend left we argued and argued and argued as I kept trying to explain that I was trying to help you guys be a good host and that I helped her all evening and that it shouldn't be an issue if I talk to my friend while you ladies do your thing and that I offered to help once they were gone. Since we were yelling at each other the police came and she told them to ask me to leave...so I had no choice but to leave. I went to my car to cool off and then knocked on her door again and asked her to please let me in that my intention were never to hurt her and that I didn't mean to ignore her. I told her I know i shouldn't be yelling and throWong and punching things but it makes me so angry when she wants to break things off over stupid things. She has intense mood swings as she was incredibly pissed that night and on Thanksgiving morning. However she did a 360 Thanksgiving morning after she left to work...explaining to me that she can't function at work that she feels like she's been with me for 5 years. Then later she says that even after all the fighting that she wishes my family a happy thanksgiving and I said same to you. Later in the afternoon she text me aagain and asked if i cold talk...i said sure. When we spoke she said she just wanted to see how I was doing and I said not too well. I told her I just want to stop the stupid fights and get along. We agreed that perhaps our problems was seeing each other too much. We would sleep together almost every night and we have become used to it. At night she text me asking me how my dinner was and I said good and yours? I feel her mood is completely different each day and it's predictable that it will happen but you just don't know when. She said good night as well. I felt like she cared about me all over again. The day after Thanksgiving (yesterday) she wasn't texting or calling at all. I got tempted to text and call her and she would anser but didn't seem as caring. She said rather than breaking it off that she needs a break to see if she is just used to me and to clear her head. I asked how long and she said 1 week. We had plans to see each other today so I asked if we can still go out and she said ok. I don't know if this is a good idea or not. I really want to see her but im afraid that even if things work out that she will drop me everytime there is an issue. I feel like I'm walking on eggshells. I could be talking to a friend and I feel like once I'm done that our relationship is over because of something stupid. I told her I feel like I could bend over and fart by accident and that she'd break things off because of that. Keep in mind we do have trust issues as well. She thinks bad when I go out with my friends but at the same time we don't want to let go because we do like each other.
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