theone44 Posted March 19, 2005 Posted March 19, 2005 Should a man or woman who has been dump by an ex ,after several months of no contact,just to e-mail and say hi to them. "Be very careful what u do and say,cause God and the FBI is watching our every move'
Illusion24 Posted March 19, 2005 Posted March 19, 2005 Personally I say What for??? All it's going to do is stir up any emotions that are still left from the break-up...It's in the past for a reason...Now it is different if you didn't leave on bad terms and decide to be friends...but besides that why even bother
LucreziaBorgia Posted March 19, 2005 Posted March 19, 2005 What would you hope to accomplish by doing so?
alphamale Posted March 19, 2005 Posted March 19, 2005 do nothing, say nothing and email nothing. put yourself in the dumper's shoes. if you had dumped someone and they sent u an email after 4 months, what would u think. esp if you don't wanna be with them anymore.
Sukotto Posted March 20, 2005 Posted March 20, 2005 I've been pondering the same question and the end result was it wouldn't accomplish anything useful. I know that I have the curiosity and want to know how uni is, how her family are and all the other stuff but it would only reduce the chance of getting over her. I guess most people use the hypothetical "What if she's just waiting for me to contact her?" well she's hoping that you care more about the relationship than she does, else she'd be emailing you at this moment in time.
Author theone44 Posted March 20, 2005 Author Posted March 20, 2005 Well my ex didn't break-up,because she found someone or she fell out of love.....she left me cause of my behavior and bad boys way's,and i wasn't treating her right some-time. I know some-time women get tired of men bull-sh%%%%%%%%t. Hey now i know what i need to change my bad boy way,and become a good boy. You make mistake,and then you live and learn from them. "Your bad way's,and nasty hidden secret will caught up with you one of these days". If you find a good woman,don't do anything harmful that will cause her to leave you.
RecordProducer Posted March 20, 2005 Posted March 20, 2005 What you just wrote is not in your favor at all. Being an assis the worst reason of being ditched. You leave someone for another, you break up when you fall out of love, but you ditch an ass! This funny rule of asking general questions like "what do you do in such and such situation?" that turn into clear explanation of the real problem after a few posts, tell me that most of the people (probably including myself) run away from the core of the problem and want to see it as a general question rather than a problem. Anyhoozes, if you want to get back to her then the question is how you do that. Call her on the phone or visit her personally. Forget about sending an email! What are you... spam? Send her flowers. Then call her on the phone or visit her. Good luck! P.S. If you don't have money for flowers then don't bother working things out! She won't like you! Just kidding...
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