CatalystNX Posted November 29, 2014 Posted November 29, 2014 What are some ways you can turn up the romance in a relationship? I generally like to think of myself as pretty good in this department, but lately I've been drawing blanks - the relationship equivalent of writer's block it seems. I like to do little random gestures to show her I care. Leave her little notes, buy her random small gifts, take her something I know she likes for lunch to work as a surprise, stuff like that. I'm really just looking for something a little more outside the box and unexpected. I was considering taking her on a 2-day 'getaway' of sorts one weekend. Treat her to the full spa treatment, nice hotel/restaurants, just the two of us up and surprise her with it as soon as she gets off work on a Friday. Just drop everything and go. That might come off a little over the top, but I suspect she won't mind under the circumstances. Still, though, as far as everyday little things like I mentioned above, what are some ideas or things you've done/received in the past that did the trick? 1
Els Posted November 29, 2014 Posted November 29, 2014 I was considering taking her on a 2-day 'getaway' of sorts one weekend. Treat her to the full spa treatment, nice hotel/restaurants, just the two of us up and surprise her with it as soon as she gets off work on a Friday. Just drop everything and go. That might come off a little over the top, but I suspect she won't mind under the circumstances. That sounds lovely. Though depending on her personality type, she might want to get a heads up ahead of time - I mean, what if she's already made important commitments during that weekend? Might turn out awkward if you just spring it on her on Friday. Still, though, as far as everyday little things like I mentioned above, what are some ideas or things you've done/received in the past that did the trick?I loved breakfast in bed when my SO did it! Quite cliche though. 1
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