Simon Phoenix Posted December 4, 2014 Posted December 4, 2014 It's not chasing. Just genuine curious as to what her behavior means... It means stop overthinking and overanalyzing and make a move. If she says no, then that's that. If she says she'd like to but she's busy, then let her initiate the next conversation. Right now you are going through paralysis by analysis. Stop trying to figure out what she's thinking, be confident, and make a move.
Author CalmandCarryOn Posted December 4, 2014 Author Posted December 4, 2014 It means stop overthinking and overanalyzing and make a move. If she says no, then that's that. If she says she'd like to but she's busy, then let her initiate the next conversation. Right now you are going through paralysis by analysis. Stop trying to figure out what she's thinking, be confident, and make a move. Is a dinner date too cliche? What about going to a popular winter walkway that has a ton of awesome lights through the park? Too extreme? It how about dinner and then the walkway?
Simon Phoenix Posted December 4, 2014 Posted December 4, 2014 Is a dinner date too cliche? What about going to a popular winter walkway that has a ton of awesome lights through the park? Too extreme? It how about dinner and then the walkway? Dude, relax. Do what feels right. If she likes you, it won't matter. But you are going to kill your chances before they even start if you are being this weird about it. 1
Detectingfreak Posted December 4, 2014 Posted December 4, 2014 Is a dinner date too cliche? What about going to a popular winter walkway that has a ton of awesome lights through the park? Too extreme? It how about dinner and then the walkway? Girls are most comfortable going to their favorite restaurant on the first date. I have named Red Robin my home base for taking the ladies out for a date. I get to know them, talk to them, and see what they are all about. Then I can decide if they are worth pursuing later. You should find a restaurant you are comfortable with taking the girl to that is not expensive. Then take her and talk to her. You can find out a lot about a person in one date if its not at a movie.
TiredConfusedHurtSad Posted December 4, 2014 Posted December 4, 2014 it means she aint interested and is playing games with you. Don't get your heart broken like i did. it is so not worth it. Have fun with your friends, enjoy life and I assume your in your early 20's like I am. I am 25 and the worst mistake ever was getting in a two year relationship with a girl. Relationships arn't everything. They will cost you money, time and independence. Indeed. Unfortunately, there's hundreds of millions of years of evolutionary impulses at work. Can't wait for human technology to boost the frontal cortex already!!
Author CalmandCarryOn Posted December 4, 2014 Author Posted December 4, 2014 Girls are most comfortable going to their favorite restaurant on the first date. I have named Red Robin my home base for taking the ladies out for a date. I get to know them, talk to them, and see what they are all about. Then I can decide if they are worth pursuing later. You should find a restaurant you are comfortable with taking the girl to that is not expensive. Then take her and talk to her. You can find out a lot about a person in one date if its not at a movie. Yeah - definitely going to abstain from going to the movies. Just a little worried dinner is too cliche...
organizedchaos Posted December 4, 2014 Posted December 4, 2014 Yeah - definitely going to abstain from going to the movies. Just a little worried dinner is too cliche... You're too worried about everything. You need to get help and deal with that.
Author CalmandCarryOn Posted December 4, 2014 Author Posted December 4, 2014 You're too worried about everything. You need to get help and deal with that. Should I ask her through text or call her on the phone? We're in college so that may be disruptive to call...
organizedchaos Posted December 4, 2014 Posted December 4, 2014 Should I ask her through text or call her on the phone? We're in college so that may be disruptive to call... Sorry,any answer I give you is going to send you in to another tailspin with more questions, doubts, worry, etc. 1
smackie9 Posted December 5, 2014 Posted December 5, 2014 You had so many opportunities to chat with her, but you ignored her.....she prob thinks you don't like her enough to pick up the damn phone and ask her to go grab some pizza with you. Insecurity loses the girl. 1
Author CalmandCarryOn Posted December 5, 2014 Author Posted December 5, 2014 You had so many opportunities to chat with her, but you ignored her.....she prob thinks you don't like her enough to pick up the damn phone and ask her to go grab some pizza with you. Insecurity loses the girl. But what about everyone who has said she's not interested...how did I lose her if she was never even interested in the first place?
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