Bromandude111 Posted November 29, 2014 Posted November 29, 2014 Hey everyone, I'm in a situation right now that I've never really been in. There's this girl that I met a few weeks ago, and we've hung out a few times and had sex a few times. The subject came up early on, and she mentioned she wasn't interested in anything more than hanging out and casual sex. Anyway, as time has gone on, she's acted a lot differently. She's starting to go out of her way to text me, and has asked me on a few different dates. I really want her to be my girlfriend, as I feel we really connect. But at the same time, I don't want to ruin what's already going on. Even though she originally stated she didn't want anything more, her level of interest is looking like it's increasing. I'm just kind of confused as to what I should do from here, and would love some advice.
assiral Posted November 29, 2014 Posted November 29, 2014 Hey everyone, I'm in a situation right now that I've never really been in. There's this girl that I met a few weeks ago, and we've hung out a few times and had sex a few times. The subject came up early on, and she mentioned she wasn't interested in anything more than hanging out and casual sex. Anyway, as time has gone on, she's acted a lot differently. She's starting to go out of her way to text me, and has asked me on a few different dates. I really want her to be my girlfriend, as I feel we really connect. But at the same time, I don't want to ruin what's already going on. Even though she originally stated she didn't want anything more, her level of interest is looking like it's increasing. I'm just kind of confused as to what I should do from here, and would love some advice. You should ask her. I was in that same situation where I thought I was this guy's **** buddy and then started falling in love with him. When I told him I needed to stop seeing him because I was going to get hurt because he didn't want anything else than that, he asked me to be his girlfriend. Just talk to her about her views on you two and if there's a possibility of something else happening there.
Guitarisgood Posted November 30, 2014 Posted November 30, 2014 Advice from a guy. DON'T say or DO anything of that that would give your feelings away! I implore you DON'T. Continue what you are doing and keep yourself busy to keep yourself from over thinking about her because guess what, it is working. She is starting to like you. You now have to let her chase and she will judging from your post. Let her decide. Let her do the texting, let her organise the hangouts. Don't be afraid to drop her if you've already got something planned. Meet other woman is the biggest thing as she said, she 'says' she is not interested in something more. I guarantee that when she gets an inkling there is another woman around, she will realize how she feels about you and want to pursue something more. If not, her loss as you'll be still meeting new people.
preraph Posted November 30, 2014 Posted November 30, 2014 I agree not to put your feelings on the table. However, I also agree with the other poster who said to just ask her. You can ask her casually without spilling your guts. Just when you're someplace quiet and not during sex, like over breakfast, just say, Well, I know this all started out casual, but it does seem like we've been seeing a lot of each other, doesn't it? And see how she responds.
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