Darren2013 Posted November 29, 2014 Posted November 29, 2014 Probably one of the things that lower my interest level in a woman I am dating is if she volunteers information about her past relationships such as how many guys she slept with or what happened in her past relationships. Hey just as I have to put in an effort to raise a woman's interest level in me and keep it up in the 90s she too has to make an effort to raise my interest level. Relationships are a 2 way street. I'll worry about her interest level while she worried about mine. But talking about the past is a big pet peeve of mine. I know that she probably has a long sexual history. I don't need to know any details. Why tell me? To relieve guilt over something? The past should be left in the past. I'm not the priest. I am not Pope Francis who is going to do some ritual of forgiving your sins if you say 5 Hail Marys and 4 our Fathers. There's a difference between being honest vs. volunteering information that doesn't benefit those who would hear it.
FitChick Posted November 29, 2014 Posted November 29, 2014 When is the last time you had a real date?
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