lemonsugar Posted November 28, 2014 Posted November 28, 2014 Never thought id write this i made day 30! Its not been easy but I have!!!!! 1) I feel 100 times better than I did 30 days ago when I was crying mess and all I wanted was him back 2) Im not totally there yet but I wouldnt take him back 3) Its not a way to get the ex back its a way to get yourself back 4) Its hard and so awful at points but you get through it and it feels better than after 4 days of breaking up and contact and every time he text me i burst out crying because it hurt so much to hear from him and how he wasnt sure what he wanted. Since I stopped replying Ii havent heard from him and I hope he keeps it that way. The last text i sent was I will talk in person if not please leave me alone I need to move on I cant keep doing this so never talk to me again please im done 5) When us girls say we are done generally we are our friends family gather round and suddenly come out with why they never liked you well mine did which may have helped make me realise he did me a favour. 6) Cry all you need to feel the pain it does help but the pain does go away eventually 7) LS is great for advice and support 8) You lived before them you will live after them so keep your chin up try and keep NC and keep moving forward HURRAH its day 30!!! 2
RedButton Posted November 28, 2014 Posted November 28, 2014 Congrats! It's great to see people feeling confident on this forum! I'm on day 28 atm, hoping I'm half as positive as you in two days time!
Author lemonsugar Posted November 28, 2014 Author Posted November 28, 2014 Its a good day for me. I still have lows but less of them. Did you keep talking for a while after? For mew it delays healing i did 4 days and then nothing. The 4 days and think about 5 texts felt like pouring salt on the wound. Once i was nc it felt less painful than texting.
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