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My ex and I were separated since I started "dating". He didn't seem to really care about anything until all this hit…
except that is not what you just posted, which is
That was until he found out that I was dating another guy after the divorce.... he freaked out.
You have lots of posts here about dating starting about last February! Like this thread: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/463247-question-about-new-relationships and then there is this one from July where you say you haven't even approached your husband about divorce!http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/separation-divorce/484847-love-addiction !!!! People here have wanted to help you but when nobody knows what is really going on with you it's impossible!! I'm sorry if I'm acting like a detective but I really would like to put this all together, Also why do you keep posting with different usernames, please please explain!!!
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So, I ended it with my BF. Got my belongings and disappeared after he went to work. I am so heart broken. But, I realize that it is best for my son.

 

Why do I have such a problem leaving when he treated me so poorly at times.

 

He told my ex that we were engaged. Trying to bait him info a text message war etc and he told my attorney that we were engaged. We are not engaged.

 

When I told him that my ex started telling my friends and colleagues ... And that I wanted to know what to say... He responded with "just smile and say yes". I said I have no ring and its a lie. And he said Im not going to pay your legal bills and buy you a ring. You choose. One or the other. He said "engagements break up all the time"...

 

I said so you are saying this is all a sham. He said "well you've done a lot of damage to our relationship... By accusing me of this.."

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OP, are you joking around?

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I invested a lot of time and sympathy in the beginning, but my well has run dry.

I think maybe we've all been played!!
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