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How to approach a shy co-worker in a touchy situation?


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The people that were supposed to talk to her about me haven't really been doing that, so I'm thinking of taking matters into my own hands. The question is - if I do go over there, what the heck do I say? "Hey, we spoke a couple of times for a few minutes and I thought you were cute."? Somehow that doesn't sound right.

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I'm not sure if going over there is the best thing to do. Heck, she doesn't even know me and I can't be sure if she's ready to handle someone being interested in her. I'm thinking of bouncing some thoughts off her friend to gauge how to play this. One way or another, I basically want her to know I like her so I can figure out if there's any potential there.

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i'd probably talk to her friend first if she knows you well. she may be able to put in the good word, right?

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I'm going to try and kickstart something here. I'm nervous beyond belief, but I want to get the wheels spinning some. I'm going to sit down with one of her friends and just kinda lay some thoughts out there. I've been told she's very nice, but that doesn't calm my fears. But I guess I should get some cajones and take a risk.

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