plguzmann Posted November 27, 2014 Posted November 27, 2014 Past couple days ive been keeping busy and shes been all over me with text and calls.But tonight sent her a pic of me in my underwear and told her to send me one but i guess shes asleep.See we have sent each other these pics before but it has been a while,Did I lose the power ?I was being elusive and cool and now I think the balls in her court and bleh?Opinions?
PegNosePete Posted November 27, 2014 Posted November 27, 2014 Yes, the ball is quite literally in her court. Maybe she was asleep?
Author plguzmann Posted November 27, 2014 Author Posted November 27, 2014 maybe she is but i feel a passive text like o i was asleep in the morning.
d0nnivain Posted November 27, 2014 Posted November 27, 2014 Playing "power games" is no way to start a healthy fulfilling relationship. Unless you have already been intimate or she asked for it, you should not have sent her a picture of you in your underwear. By doing so, you took the relationship in a direction she wasn't ready for / didn't want. She may have been asleep but she may also be ignoring in response to your inappropriate picture.
Author plguzmann Posted November 27, 2014 Author Posted November 27, 2014 we already sent each other pictures before....and phone sex couple times
elaine567 Posted November 27, 2014 Posted November 27, 2014 I think you misjudged the situation. YOU were "keeping busy" and by that I assume you were not texting or calling your gf, so she get a little on edge and bombards you with messages. In her mind she is probably asking "Does he care? Maybe not?" "He only wants me for sex, obviously. "Is he not really into me?", Where is he?", "Who is he seeing?", What's he doing? She wanted some reassurance that you are serious about her and that you think of her in a good way and that you really care. THEN you send a pic of yourself in your underwear... FACEPALM
Author plguzmann Posted November 27, 2014 Author Posted November 27, 2014 shes not my gf and weve sent each other pics before...i want to know if she still likes me or if shes just using me because im teaching her how to paint
Priv Posted November 27, 2014 Posted November 27, 2014 The moment you start thinking in power terms you lost the 'power' imo. I am sure she'll respond at some point, with or without pic attached. Be cool with either.
organizedchaos Posted November 27, 2014 Posted November 27, 2014 shes not my gf and weve sent each other pics before...i want to know if she still likes me or if shes just using me because im teaching her how to paint How could any of us possibly answer this??? 2
FitChick Posted November 27, 2014 Posted November 27, 2014 Yes, the ball is quite literally in her court. I think you meant to say his balls...
phineas Posted November 27, 2014 Posted November 27, 2014 The moment you start thinking in power terms you lost the 'power' imo. I am sure she'll respond at some point, with or without pic attached. Be cool with either. Yeah power games are for women you just want to hit and quit.
evanescentworld Posted November 27, 2014 Posted November 27, 2014 shes not my gf and weve sent each other pics before...i want to know if she still likes me or if shes just using me because im teaching her how to paint Words fail me. So I'll leave it to the best line I've seen on here today: ....But Jesus Hello Kitty Christ on a Rocket-Powered Toboggan, are you FREAKIN’ SERIOUS? 2
Author plguzmann Posted November 27, 2014 Author Posted November 27, 2014 Young girls are just a headache lol I never get games with mature women...
evanescentworld Posted November 27, 2014 Posted November 27, 2014 As an older woman, why does that not surprise me? 1
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