thelonewolflegend Posted November 26, 2014 Posted November 26, 2014 Okay this new girl I met is 33 years old and we have seen each other 3 times and i am questioning what is going on and if i should continue to pursue advice? First time we hung out at my place talked and n stuff about dating and about women how they do games and bout women seen in the past it was cool I tried to kiss her at the end and she said I dont know where you been I just brushed it off and was alright. 2nd date was fun we went to the west end had dinner at a bar and drink and talked and i told her we going dutch and she said thats fine but next time we went out wanted me to pay if taking her out I just said ok not big deal. 3rd date we watched movie at my house i held her and got to rub on her n things like that on her leg and she said she had a sinus headache cold i said i can give you some medicine i got i gave her this small red pill which is sinus medicine and she said is this a drug to take advantage of me i laughed yeah right i said. i tried to kiss her on the couch after the movie during show we watching she said i dont do kissing i just said alright thats fine. I am trying to be cool about this but now I am scraching my head here I am not asking or mentioning this to her but anyone got any answers for me? Could she have a disease? Could she slept around so much she wants to wait? Is she not attracted to me? I mean she texts me wants to hangout etc.. but does this explain?
birdbud Posted November 26, 2014 Posted November 26, 2014 just be her friend for now. she seems like she isnt too interested in you, at least not yet. maybe she is not right for you? try not making any advances and just being a good, nice, gentleman friend. maybe that will help her feel comfortable around you? maybe that will allow you to see if the woman she truly is (or wants to show you) is the kind of woman you really want to be with.if not, at least you homies
the_entertainer1 Posted November 26, 2014 Posted November 26, 2014 If I were you, I'd ask her - perhaps try again, and if she doesn't let you, use that as a way of broaching the subject. I ended up going on like 7 or 8 dates with a guy before he even tried to kiss me! That's got to be a record or something! I thought I was inexperienced, but he was even more so! So it could be that she's just nervous. Or, maybe she just doesn't trust you yet, or has been hurt before, so wants to take things slow (but I think that if you don't want to kiss someone after 3 dates, it's probably not going anywhere ... that's just my opinion).
d0nnivain Posted November 26, 2014 Posted November 26, 2014 It actually seems odd to me. If she didn't want to kiss you, I don't know why she agreed to be alone with you in your house on 2 occasions. I'm a big believer in kissing so the fact that she keeps putting you off is a bad sign. I'd move on.
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