was i clingy

[thehanes]

my girlfriend well she has been real busy lately. she works 45 hours a week while also going to school full time

 

i was trying to figure out a day we could meet up for dinner this week. i figured sunday would be a good day and she hit me with this "nick im really sorry. i just cant plan ahead lke that right now. thinking past today is just stressing em out with everything i have going on right now"

 

i said "alright i understand, just trying to figure a day out"

 

she said "im not mad just very busy right now"

 

 

was i clingy

[mariekatie]

my girlfriend well she has been real busy lately. she works 45 hours a week while also going to school full time

 

i was trying to figure out a day we could meet up for dinner this week. i figured sunday would be a good day and she hit me with this "nick im really sorry. i just cant plan ahead lke that right now. thinking past today is just stressing em out with everything i have going on right now"

 

i said "alright i understand, just trying to figure a day out"

 

she said "im not mad just very busy right now"

 

 

was i clingy

 

 

It's hard to say as we don't have much details about how you act in your relationship. But judging from what you said, i don't think you're clingy.

She might be really busy and i understand your frustration. It's always the "free one" who feels empty and neglected. I think you're being reasonable enough, as least you didn't fight with her over a small issue. Just let her know you care and miss her and don't push it. Wait till Saturday and bring it up again.

 

But personally i feel that no matter how busy a person is, they could fork out some time. Maybe a hour is also good enough.

[Beautiful Kisses]

No. Your both just kinda frustrated with the situation with not being able to spend much Tim together. Let her tell you when she's free, until then just give her a little more space.

[Redhead14]

No. Your both just kinda frustrated with the situation with not being able to spend much Tim together. Let her tell you when she's free, until then just give her a little more space.

 

No not clingy. It is OK to let her know what your needs are and what you want. You tell her once, don't beg, don't ever ask why if she isn't specific and then leave it alone. Clingy would be getting angry, frustrated, whiny, begging, etc. She knows what you want, if she is paying attention and care about that, she will come to you soon enough. And, remember too, that at the moment she is busy, so may not think about all this right now, do try not to get anxious. That will cause you to get clingy.

[Frank2thepoint]

Why does this thread look so much similar to this one? your view on this conversation

 

Are you the same guy, but registered a new account just to get a different response?